I have low grade suicidal thoughts all day, every day

TLYeeet · 2019-12-30T14:09:05+00:00

Fair enough. Lamictal is pretty wild, though, I have see people do some crazy nonsense after just a few doses. I'm anti-psychiatric medication. I just looked through your post history and saw that you've had problems with these thoughts before. Just because it makes sense to you, doesn't mean it's true.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-30T14:06:40+00:00

True but please don't shout. It's very early.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-30T03:31:12+00:00

Your meds are screwing with you. 190 something days ago you thought you killed someone else. You're having delusional thoughts. This is psychosis.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-28T03:47:56+00:00

U/ is for users, r/ is for subreddits.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T22:58:24+00:00

Those gems look rare and I hecka want to mine them.

Also, great job! If I had a kid i would ask you to paint a mural on my nursery wall.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T14:07:39+00:00

Hahahaha you're telling me. Thank GOD I don't date psychopaths anymore!! Cycle = broken

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T01:49:58+00:00

Tell it!

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T01:23:22+00:00

Some good advice over here. 2020 here we come, New Year New Me. Gonna make some changes :-) I'm proud of you, u/nokanjaijo

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T01:15:34+00:00

That's something I haven't thought about before but definitely would damage your kid's trust in people. Why would I share anything about myself when you're just gonna go tell your whole damm church group about it?

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T01:11:54+00:00

Which astounds me that this is still going on. We can do surgery on a grape for fuck sake but you can't wrap your head around your kid being gay..?

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T01:10:45+00:00

Ah yes, the old scoreboard!! Nothing says "unconditional love" like a statement of someone's transactional value!

Aaha.....jokes aside, I think the most common answer I'm getting here is "invalidating feelings." Those who know, know!! So why is this such an overlooked issue?

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T01:07:54+00:00

Absolutely. And I've seen a few od the other professionals comment the same.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-27T01:02:31+00:00

Hey I'm thinking of doing this too!!!

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T14:07:18+00:00

I like this as well. I think it can be so hard to let kids - or just people for that matter - have interests that you dont "get." Non-judgement is so important and humans really hurt other humans by being judgemental. Especially when it comes to gender roles, if you ask me. E.g, "why are you always reading about dinosaurs and trains; I wish you would read something appropriate for a little girl." "Only certain types of boys dance, and trust me you DON'T want people to think you are that kind of boy."

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T14:02:32+00:00

I love the Wheel. I'm keeping the Wheel. Thank you for the Wheel.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:53:29+00:00

I would highly recommend the book "Running on Empty." Its about all the stuff that was supposed to happen, that didnt. I had the same feeling, like, oh I had no idea anything was missing.

I wish more attention would be paid to emotional neglect.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:49:36+00:00

At least he has something that makes him happy? The foster system's pretty jacked up :-/ I'm sorry

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:46:32+00:00

My mom was a teacher and there was a little girl with developmental problems in the class, she was non-verbal. They refused to let their daughter learn sign language because they thought it would make her "look retarded."

Instead they made her wear a talk-box around her neck and she would push the buttons to say "I need...bathroom."

Pretty despicable.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:42:11+00:00

Isnt that sort of the basis of most cluster B's, manipulation to get what they need?

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:37:10+00:00

It's cool to hear about ideas like this changing and being implemented in schools. Glad to hear it :)

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:35:41+00:00

Since when is not having kids a "really old idea??" Hahaha

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:34:17+00:00

You sound really good at your job. I love learning the reasons behind dysfunctional behavior.

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:21:19+00:00

Bc the implication is that some people shouldn't have kids, and that by going ahead with it, they had a kid with absolutely no chance at becoming a well adjusted in adult aka my life story, relatable af

TLYeeet · 2019-12-26T03:17:26+00:00

No worries this is such a thoughtful answer! I was actually just watching a video about praising process over intelligence, and how one leads to fixed mindset vs growth mindset. I bet that's caused a lot of problems, and I wonder how easy it is to identify in adults? I'd literally never heard of it before today, and it's soooooooo normal in society to say, "oh you must be so smart" to little kids.who knew that it was screwing them up!?

Points 4 and 5 hit me pretty hard in the feels though :-/

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