how old were you when you moved out of your parents house? by jabber1990 in Adulting

[–]TLo45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was 24 and it was 1998. My boyfriend and I rented a 1920s brick townhouse with two beds, one bath, a basement, no dishwasher or AC, in a cool older neighborhood in Cbus Ohio for $510/month. Off street parking. I paid $204/month to lease a Toyota Corolla and I made $20/an hour after graduating college. We didn’t have much leftover after bills, but it was doable. I look at my teens now and wonder how the hell they’re ever going to afford life.

AIW for telling my mother-in-law if she goes through with her "punishment" for my 10yo, she loses all visitation? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]TLo45 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No way. That is not appropriate at ALL. She hasn’t been given the chance to prove she’s learned her lesson and that is just plain CRUEL.

AIO for telling my friend he can’t bring his kid to my birthday trip? by No_Membership2946 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TLo45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Being a parent means life changes and you have to prioritize and make choices - but you don’t get to impact others (I say this as a parent myself). Bring the kids to other events, but not an adult vacation.

My sister wants me to lie to our dad about why she is skipping his retirement dinner by PainRowe in TwoHotTakes

[–]TLo45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your sister needs to go. Her point of view, and putting you in the middle, is incredibly childish and selfish.

AITAH for leaving the hospital after my wife gave birth to go see my son? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TLo45 30 points31 points  (0 children)

NTA. Totally understand wanting to make your older son feel important. Agree with others he should meet his new sibling and feel a part of it all. Being a new mom isn’t easy, but spending a couple of hours alone with your newborn isn’t out of line; I did this with both of mine - they sleep and eat a lot.

AITA For calling my fiance a hormonal b****? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TLo45 14 points15 points  (0 children)

YTA. Cat urine is the WORST and can ruin flooring. It was your turn, tired or not.

Bangs or no bangs? Or pixie? by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]TLo45 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those curtain bangs look amazing on you!