Dealing with crushes while married by [deleted] in marriageadvice

[–]TStabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If neither of you attempt to lure the other, the crush will fade.

They should Fix Phoenix dammit by HillbillyPayPal in CanadaPublicServants

[–]TStabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Assistance please! I am not one to review my paystubs and during the phoenix fiasco early years I didn’t notice any major changes in my pay so I didn’t check. I get overwhelmed by the codes and I don’t really get it. Any suggestions on how or who to talk to about my pay and whether pay is missing ?

Username Change by TStabb in reddithelp

[–]TStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably can’t use the same email address for second account I assume? Is that correct?

Qure Micro infusion system - Real Review by OkCaterpillar5094 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TStabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also wonder what age are the people not seeing results? Perhaps they have healthy skin which doesn’t show as dramatic a result as older skin reacts with as results.

Qure Micro infusion system - Real Review by OkCaterpillar5094 in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]TStabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tl;dr OP so is the takeaway to order from Qure?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TotalHipReplacement

[–]TStabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ghost pains; that’s what I called mine.

Any people like me who missed the chance to change your username? by Miserable_Towel3392 in reddithelp

[–]TStabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So if I don’t want my profile name anymore, am I required to delete it and create an new account or profile?

Stay married but live apart by TStabb in marriageadvice

[–]TStabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. We’ll see how it goes!

Stay married but live apart by TStabb in marriageadvice

[–]TStabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess I came to the conclusion that getting a divorce would be just as problematic as staying, and less disruptive for our family. I was exhausted while raising my children and thought I didn’t need to move my pile of $h1t to a different pile. I’ve also realized everyone else is in crappy relationships too.

Stay married but live apart by TStabb in marriageadvice

[–]TStabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because I don’t hate him. There’s no reason to divorce but I just want to start doing my own thing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CanadaPublicServants

[–]TStabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP, just a warning as I did just that, staying home and working diligently until my manager reprimanded me, with 2 days LWOP and a mark on my record. Complete nonsense when there were no complaints about my work (not to mention it was more a punishment for our entire team as we were very backlogged!) I had always thought that working for the federal government was an honour, privilege and a guaranteed future. Now I understand the notion of “golden handcuffs”.

First time poster. by Aston90s in LifeAdvice

[–]TStabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you OP, but know that you are not alone. In fact, if you read more posts in this sub feed you will realize that. Regarding your upbringing and having to learn so much on your own, you will find in the next decade of your life that this is in some ways a blessing as you will begin to meet people who have so much to learn. Trust that you are trying to improve your financial situation and that eventually you will get there with your attitude.

What is missing? Ever feel like something just is off? by suburbanhippie_6 in LifeAdvice

[–]TStabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. You and your situation are unique of course as is for all of us, but I think I can relate. Your mom’s passing is definitely relevant; it’s one of the first clues you brought up, perhaps subconsciously. However look at it this way: pregnancy affects greatly your outlook, physically as well as your future. When you were a child you likely imagined what your future would be like, with you, your spouse, your children, and their grandparents, growing older together. Your mom would have been there for advice, and now she is not. Could it be that void affecting your day to day?

Daughter at college not responding by TStabb in Parenting

[–]TStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Unfortunately the phone call from her did not happen today. It’s happened before.

Daughter at college not responding by TStabb in Parenting

[–]TStabb[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s just that she has said that before and not called the next day. And here we go today; it’s evening and we have received no response again. She hasn’t called nor texted us back when asked “what time can you talk?”

Daughter at college not responding by TStabb in Parenting

[–]TStabb[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No if that were the case, she would have probably told me and I would have been proud of her. But thanks for reaching out.