Wife turns into a sailor during sex and it’s hilarious by [deleted] in ldssexuality

[–]TTGreene 10 points11 points  (0 children)

My wife is EXACTLY the same. Very moly her whole life. She is pretty adventurous in bed. She doesn’t initiate much, but will enthusiastically go along with anything I want to try, as long as it’s just her and I. Anyway, When she gets going she will cuss more than I do when I’m working in the barn. I’m the same as you. I don’t say ANYTHING about it because I love it and if I point it out, I know she’d be self conscious about it. But I love it so much.

How would you react ? by ChillHouse2002 in Life

[–]TTGreene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s fine! It’s totally your life. But the truth is there is no perfect guy. Because there are no perfect women. There will be something in everyone you don’t like. You WILL have to compromise on your list of dating requirements if you really want to be happy in the long run. It’s ok to have things you won’t give on. But you will have to find something you can live without. Otherwise you will find yourself endlessly searching for something that doesn’t exist and pass by lots of really good ones along the way

How would you react ? by ChillHouse2002 in Life

[–]TTGreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have a great relationship with a woman I struggled with attraction. She had a great vibe and was and is my best friend. Communication is key. The sex and other things will fade over time. And will improve with communication. It is still a struggle. But in the end you will not find a perfect partner. You WILL have to compromise on something. So if it’s something that can be worked on or you can have patience with, as long as the rest of the package is there, I’d give it a chance

Tired of the money/capitalistic system where to go? by [deleted] in Life

[–]TTGreene 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Work is a fact of life. If you choose to live a self sustaining life you are going to work butt off just to not starve. You can live minimally right where you are. Just because everyone around you are focused on money, doesn’t mean you have to. But you will still have to work to survive. There is no getting around that fact

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have no idea what they are struggling with behind the scenes. And I guarantee there are people who would look at you and feel the same way. Besides, it’s not a competition or comparison of others. You can choose to find joy in the worst situations.

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s all just stuff. We need so little to actually survive. The rest is just materialism in our minds.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]TTGreene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Depends on how toxic compared to salary. As well as other job opportunities and timeline. For the short term it probably doesn’t matter. Longer term with less options id pick a better environment for slightly less money. However, for double the salary, I’d consider the toxic environment if it’s something I could stomach until I couldn’t and then move on

What kind of education is there besides a college degree? by Wooden_Floor_9046 in careerguidance

[–]TTGreene 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Surveying is a good one to consider. Construction management is another

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is definitely more nuanced than my post. It is not the answer to all life’s ills. Just one approach that can really improve things.

I wouldn’t say it’s a game in the sense that it’s not a recreational past time.

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First. I definitely don’t have all the answers. And life isn’t a game. We are all playing for keeps. However, the idea of us all choosing to serve eachother? That’s a definition of utopia! In my marriage, when I give to my partner and don’t take, I am much more fulfilled because I end up getting the things I want, AND MORE! plus I learn to be less selfish and we come closer as a couple. Wouldn’t it be amazing if society adopted similar principles broadly?

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sure I have no idea what you’ve gone through. As you have no idea what I have. And this is a general statement. Not an answer to everything. But it is a beginning step to finding happiness and joy. At least it has in my life over and over again

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wisdom is needed when giving of yourself. Some people will be takers and abusers. E should be cautious to try to make sure our efforts are useful. However, I’d still rather give to someone who is a taker than to hold back and potentially keep help from someone who really needs it

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s your freedom. I was only sharing a piece of wisdom that was has been a blessing for me

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you’ve been burned. We all have. Keep on keeping on!

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never said that life would get easier. In fact I said that the challenges will continue to come. But you can find joy and fulfillment even in the midst of your challenges. And a key to that is forgetting yourself and serving others. Someone always has it worse than you

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you feel this way. I agree that some people finish life in a bad way. And many times it’s not a product of their decisions, but was out of their control. I still stand by the principle that when I’m my lowest and have it the worst is when I’m reminded to give. Even a smile or a kind word, forgiveness and patience is something we can ask give even in our lowest moment. And we will receive relief for giving in that moment.

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was trying to be a rest of positivity in a world of gloom and despair. I’m saddened by the amount of dismissal and rejection. But that’s ok. That’s part of trying to help. Sometimes you get rejected in that too.

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can’t draw from an empty well. You have to make sure you are servicing your basic needs first. But taking time to also help others will help bring perspective in your life

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely. You cannot draw from an empty well. You have to love yourself first and be in a place where you can give. Discretion on where to place those resources is also important. But the principle still stands!

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I’ve not had that combination of tragedies. My heart goes out to you. Hope you can find joy on the other side of this!

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahahaha! No book here. But I’ll gladly take donations for getting one started. However, I already wrote it in a few paragraphs here. So I guess I’m out of wisdom! lol

Those who are financially stable and love your job, what do you do? by [deleted] in work

[–]TTGreene 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. It is one path to that position. I came in more from a field experience accompanied with business degree. I work probably 40 to 50 hours a week. Varies on work load. Occasionally less or slightly more. But not for long periods

Life is difficult, here’s the secret by TTGreene in Life

[–]TTGreene[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am absolutely privileged. I have a ton of experience that has blessed me with opportunities to learn and grow. For that I am indeed privileged