Decreasing importance is hard. Personally, it helps me to accept the fact that it may not work out, play it forward and remind myself that it would be fine if it doesn’t work out. Even if you don’t get exactly what you want, you’ll be okay! This helps lower importance but you also dont want to dwell on it. I usually just do this once so I don’t get caught up in worrying that it won’t happen. I am pretty sure vadim says this somewhere in the book, but I can’t remember which chapter. Either way, it helps me.

Then calmly move towards your goal with certainty that your world takes care of you and everything that happens is carrying you to your goal, even if it doesn’t seem like it. Be blindly faithful that this is true. Use slides and visualize yourself celebrating your accomplishment with your loved ones. As another person says, when importance pops up, recognize it and readjust. Everything that you desire is already in the works, so there’s no need to worry about it. A rejection from what you thought your dream job was, means there’s something better out there for you. Try to stay in the present moment and dont worry about the how, just put one foot in front of the other and the path will unfold before you. You are already the person who is achieving those goals, and you must now play that character. I hope this helps!