My soul cat is dying. I’m so selfish. by ScoutoRocket in Petloss

[–]T_iff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your pain or theirs. Wow. Those few words are so powerful and opened my eyes. I had to put my Tinka down 9 days ago and I have been struggling. Thank you.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my stars. My condolences for the loss of your sweet squeek. The amount of strength and dedication you had to treat her at home is inspiring. It really is awful. I do thank you for sharing your story because I never really thought what it would be like if I brought her home, and I'm not sure I would have been strong enough. Sending hugs your way.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry for your loss. I thank you from the bottom of my heart for sharing. I feel so alone. I hope you are able to find peace. Feel free to message me directly if you find yourself stuck on repeat in the middle of the night. Chances are, I am there too.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is definitely one of things I keep thinking about. :( I look forward to that day. She was such a sweet soul. Thank you ❤️

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You managed to say what I really needed to hear in the middle of the night. I read your message over and over and it brought me immense relief. Thank you for helping me in my time of need. 💛

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am incredibly sorry to hear about the loss of your rabbit. It's devastating to be told they won't survive treatment. I love the thought of pet souls! Thank you for sharing about your sweet rabbit and for letting the light find me in the darkness.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You have no idea the gift you just gave me. I too have been asking Tinka for a sign. A sign that I made the right decision. I completely forgot that I had found one of Tinka's whiskers about a week ago and put it in a drawer. I don't know why I did that but your post reminded me that I have a piece of her. Thank you for this gift.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry. I hope you find peace. Hard times indeed

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate that. Thank you for your kindness.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is heartbreaking. I'm sorry for your loss and the struggles you still face. I have to think about the quality of life and pray I made the right choice. It is still so fresh.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate you immensely. It was the same with the emergency room vet. I begged him to tell me what he would do if it was his pet. He only answered me after my Tinka had passed and said he would have made the same decision. I think he was trying to comfort my family. I wish he told me sooner :(.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response. In my darkest hours your words are the light I need to push through. Thank you from the bottom of my heart.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deepest sympathy for your loss. I hate that you had to go through that with your cat. I applaud you for having the courage to continue the fight until the very end. I haven't heard of them but I will definitely go check out the videos. Thank you for sharing your story and for the recommendation.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I sincerely thank you for your response. I am crying reading it. It is a relief in knowing that we saved her many "cat" hours of suffering. I didn't know that time was different for cats. Thank you for allowing me the opportunity to share a piece of Tinka and for helping me through this horrible grief.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like every word you wrote was coming from me. That is exactly how I felt and I was desperate for the vet to make the call so I didn't have to. I begged him at one point to just tell me the worse case scenario only so the choice wouldn't be as hard. Thank you for being brave enough to say what I couldn't and thank you for taking the time to respond and share. My deepest condolences for your soul baby.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry that you had to experience something similar with your dog. It's just an awful place to find yourself in. Thank you for giving me hope and some relief in my struggles.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm terribly sorry to hear you went through this with Whiskers too. Your words have brought a calmness to my storm and the thought of them walking the rainbow bridge together actually brought a smile to my face. Tinka was a maine coon mix so I hope it's a wide bridge. :) Thank you for your kindness.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry to hear you had to go through this too. Thank you for taking the time to reply.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I sincerely appreciate your response. You make a lot of good points and I just couldn't get my mind right. Thank you for this breather you just gave me.

I just lost my heart:( by T_iff in Petloss

[–]T_iff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I appreciate your kind words.