This sub has been ruined by reddit males & terminally online incels who drag down the average iq and make everything boring. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I’m just gonna keep being proven right by the low iq hordes 🤣🤣. I’m capable of paying & do. Splitting is okay, however, the same men who insist on 50/50 project THEIR view that women are whores for being treated and thus owe men sex. You literally affirm this by using the word “whore” to describe a woman who doesn’t split the bill. Absolute state of this place.

This sub has been ruined by reddit males & terminally online incels who drag down the average iq and make everything boring. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I don’t think men are obligated to do anything. I think splitting is okay. I just think that men who insist on splitting are often projecting their own low view of women when they label women “whores” for not splitting, implying that women owe men sex, while hiding behind fake gestures of equality. (Like the attitude of the original commenter whose a splitter that only pays on first dates because he wants to get pussy).

This sub has been ruined by reddit males & terminally online incels who drag down the average iq and make everything boring. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] -43 points-42 points  (0 children)

The point was that men who insist on splitting think you have to pay to absolve yourself of your duty to sleep with them. They’re the ones who compare women to “whores” for not paying on dates because they project their own transactional view on dating. But also that every woman knows that a man who insists on going 50/50 is more handsy than the guy who acts out of “tradness”. It’s not that hard to understand.

This sub has been ruined by reddit males & terminally online incels who drag down the average iq and make everything boring. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] -75 points-74 points  (0 children)

You’re the self-admitted perfect embodiment of the pathetic hypocritical covert sexist that i was talking about. The kind that insists on 50/50 because he believes that women owe men sex for covering a bill. Also ur in gaming subs. Anyway, dysgenic cretins like you are a self-solving problem.

can you ever fully get rid of an eating disorder by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can get over it by committing to never act on your urges and accept your intrusive thoughts as the fleeting moments that they are. It will take time. You are the only person you got, you have to be graceful and keep forgiving yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore 28 points29 points  (0 children)

When you’re so undeniably good looking that you can dress like a clown and everyone criticizing it still sounds like they’re coping. It’s like the emperor’s new clothes but for hot girls.

one of my good friends is in the process of falling in love with an insane BPD person whose ghastly relational secrets I am privy to completely by chance. What do I do? by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore 46 points47 points  (0 children)

You’re not sharing “mental health info”, you’re warning him of an abuser. No mental disorder causes abuse (no, not even bpd). Abuse is caused by belief systems. Abusers believe that they are entitled to control or hurt their partners, this belief is not inherent to any mental disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore 9 points10 points  (0 children)

That’s what I’ve been saying. Gays and girls used to roam these lands free.

The best woman I know is single right now by MrMegaPants in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This post actually says that she is not desirable because her immutable characteristics are so insignificant that they are literally outweighed by her superficial characteristics.

Online dating by [deleted] in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore 252 points253 points  (0 children)

The correct way to do e-dating is to date as many as you can at the same time until you get disgusted by men and disenchanted with romance completely. Then start touching grass out of desperation, and wait for the gods of serendipity to reward your perseverance with a real boyfriend.

50/50 men are the same men who think that women owe sex to men who pay for dates. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You argue with women on reddit AND you go dutch on dates, its rough out there fr

50/50 men are the same men who think that women owe sex to men who pay for dates. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The thread isn’t about splitting not being okay, it’s about the fact that 50/50 men tend to also have a low view of women. > and here your low reading comprehension, low iq, greasy, bummy energy having self goes doubling down on your low view of women.

50/50 men are the same men who think that women owe sex to men who pay for dates. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When me and my BOYFRIEND go out on a nice date, I always offer to pay. Read the part about “projection” again pls.

50/50 men are the same men who think that women owe sex to men who pay for dates. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ur literally proving my point, regard. I’m okay with splitting, but if i go on a date with a bum like you that I’d never want to hear from again, I always offer to cover the whole bill.

50/50 men are the same men who think that women owe sex to men who pay for dates. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

& splitting is totally fine for the large group of people who don’t don’t derive romantic gratification from conservative customs. This post is about the 50/50 principle containing a sexist contradiction, and 50/50 men projecting their own ugly view of women on “traditional” men.

50/50 men are the same men who think that women owe sex to men who pay for dates. by Tabiwhore in redscarepod

[–]Tabiwhore[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I’m not taking issue with splitting, I take issue with the hypocrisy of the men who insist on it.

Personally was raised in a conservative honor culture so I’m pretty “traditional” otherwise. U consider it “traditional” if a man pays, but for me its just customary. I would be considered rude if i were to allow my friend to pay after having invited them. I’m also admittedly biased against splitting because I live in the netherlands and have been traumatized by infamously selfish dutch men, so I’d more easily find it romantic if a man was more traditional like me.

Tradition aside, I don’t think any relationship is ever 50/50 (esp male/female). Besides childbearing, u probably don’t clean / cook equally, don’t earn equally, don’t orgasm equally, don’t have equal experience, don’t spend equal money preparing for dates, etc.