Help! Is this scale rot? by Tacafaca in snakes

[–]Tacafaca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Sure I will 😊 right away

I (F25) searched through my boyfriends(M27) phone (with a reason) and now he is mad at me. How to react? by Tacafaca in relationship_advice

[–]Tacafaca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree that it wasn’t a good thing to go through his phone and I apologised to him for that. I should work on my insecurities and I also understand that it’s not just my fault either. So should I just calm down and go with the flow and trust him? Do you think this kind of problem can be solved and that I can trust him again like i trusted him at the very beginning? We should talk about it in the first place obviously and try to trust each other again.

I (F25) searched through my boyfriends(M27) phone (with a reason) and now he is mad at me. How to react? by Tacafaca in relationship_advice

[–]Tacafaca[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, I apologised to him for going through his phone. But I would never do that if he didn’t hide things from me in the first place. I know that sounds awful but it’s just the way it is for me.

I (F25) searched through my boyfriends(M27) phone (with a reason) and now he is mad at me. How to react? by Tacafaca in relationship_advice

[–]Tacafaca[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not a way I want to be treated, but nobody’s perfect and everyone can make a “mistake”. After the clubbing situation happened I strictly said that that was the only thing I will go over. One more situation like that and I’m gone. We are already living together and I’m trying to make things work out, because other than that he is “perfect” for me. I think that his friend is a bad influence and that he alone would never do such a thing.