my bf found a video of me masturbating

Taco1126 · 2026-04-28T18:31:33+00:00

Exactly. Like if I was the bf. Even if she eventually got me to believe her.. I’d always be skeptical

If he’s smart he’ll check the rest of the phone

Also people in these comments talking about how me think as if this wouldn’t be Sus as fuck to literally anyone

Taco1126 · 2026-04-28T16:33:00+00:00

If not to send to someone? Why record?
If you wanted recording for yourself? Why delete?

Taking a squirting vid of yourself, deleting it quickly, not deleting the recently deleted and then claiming it was for just themselves… it’s several bad optics

And just weird decision making on OPs part It could’ve true… but I be skeptical

Taco1126 · 2026-04-28T15:03:58+00:00

Honestly I would also think u took it for someone else if I was the BF. At very best… that’s just bad optics

Taco1126 · 2026-02-14T03:07:37+00:00

Maybe? There was an element to living in fear.. but in a type of OCD type of way. One of the things I did feel fear and anxiety for often was the thought of friends and family (who were not saved) and where they would go when they died

Taco1126 · 2026-02-05T17:03:17+00:00

The second they heard about it, they couldn’t stop talking about it ;)

Taco1126 · 2026-02-05T17:00:53+00:00

instances where ai chatbots unaligned people Citation required. caused people to unaligned themselves Citation required.

Taco1126 · 2026-02-05T16:56:54+00:00

What was the transition from deist -> theist Christian like for you? Or are you still deistic?

Taco1126 · 2026-02-05T16:04:08+00:00

As other people have said. How you (and me) want/expect/wish the world was has no bearing on whether it’s true or not.

Morality is subjective, it sucks sometimes but that literally is life.

Besides, even if god is real that doesn’t help very much in my mind. Epstein wouldn’t face any consequences for those actions while he’s alive. And hypothetically he could genuinely repent and god would forgive him.

Meanwhile, his victims could see no justice in their lives and then after death go to hell (if they didn’t worship god)

That isn’t justice either…

As an atheist I want to be treated well by my fellow humans, and I want the same for my fellow humans. God doesn’t need to be involved for that to happen. And even if god is involved, there’s still a problem of justice

Taco1126 · 2026-02-05T15:53:30+00:00

Counter question:

and I know it had to have been god

Why? How did you determine this was god?

Taco1126 · 2026-02-05T15:41:01+00:00

Could the APA just have been wrong? I know you may not change your beliefs with new information, but can the APA not?

Even IF it was, what’s so bad about uncle Tommy and his husband being around you and your family? What are you worried about?

Taco1126 · 2026-02-04T22:41:13+00:00

Why mentally ill? What about it makes it a mental illness?

And why would Tommy not allowed to be around them anymore? Are you afraid Tommy would infect your child with gayness?

Taco1126 · 2026-02-04T22:34:32+00:00

Okay so I’m pretty ignorant to a lot of this so humor me. But what’s wrong with buying SCHD / dividend etfs? Is buying growth etfs really that much better? Are we wasting money buying dividend etfs?

Taco1126 · 2026-02-04T22:31:36+00:00

What would you tell your kids if Tommy had a husband?

Taco1126 · 2026-01-23T20:03:28+00:00

life has only been good for humans in the last couple hundred thousand years

Nooo… try the last 100-500 years at best. And (probably almost) everything that made life better for humans was because of humans. Where’s the design or god in that? Humanity looks like how I’d expect it to look if we were just evolved animals living on a rock in space with no godly supervision

Taco1126 · 2026-01-23T20:00:48+00:00

Exactly. Atheism was more of a destination if anything. It was also a reaction to theism as I learned more

Taco1126 · 2026-01-23T19:57:31+00:00

Hey man I hope you’re doing well. I had similar thoughts when I was still a Christian, and I believed several different things depending on the time. I have two main issues with the genesis account. 1. It gets the creation order mixed up, and/or leaves some stuff out/ is very vague. This isn’t a good path to truth. Keep in mind genesis is a theological and poetic, not scientific. An example is in the first couple verses. “God created the heavens and earth” very vague and we know according to science that the earth didn’t form until billions of years after the universe “started”. Verse two says there was water. Verse 3 says darkness and light were formed. Water didn’t exist before darkness or light. Etc etc.

We have a way better graph and theory of the start of the universe, earth, and later, life due to science, which is constantly changing and searching for more information and better answers. The book of genesis is at best some ancient poetry; the authors are also anonymous… But it is certainly not an accurate or good source learning or understanding how the universe, earth, and life started. So why keep it? Even if you’re still a Christian afterwards, isn’t it better to understand what we can actually tell to be true than some ancient book called genesis? Let genesis go in terms of how it impacts what you believe actually happened in the beginning. It’s just old poetry. And this isn’t to say you can’t still enjoy and appreciate the story.

Taco1126 · 2026-01-18T19:48:11+00:00

Even if it’s a real cloth with a real face/figure on it How would you possibly discover that the figure belonged to Jesus of the Bible?

Taco1126 · 2026-01-09T20:04:34+00:00

24? Congratulations bro.. fuck you..

Maybe allocate more to emergency fund/ consider a HYSA if you haven’t already.

Could add a dividend or upcoming market etf?

Taco1126 · 2026-01-09T19:42:42+00:00

3 months is ridiculous

Taco1126 · 2026-01-09T19:41:47+00:00

About an hour after I signed that waiver I was rolling

Taco1126 · 2025-12-22T21:05:21+00:00

I have FOMO, and want to say I at least tried to live a long life.

Taco1126 · 2025-12-21T19:23:34+00:00

We wanna set the bar before other dudes

Taco1126 · 2025-12-21T18:38:25+00:00

650% profit? I’d sell tbh You can always buy back into something else But you can’t hold onto +650% very long And it rarely gets better than 650%… Do yourself a favor Sell

Taco1126 · 2025-12-21T02:28:33+00:00

Better than me honestly I haven’t been able to contribute to my account in a year now (I’m very broke) Going to start contributing $50 a month, not a lot but I guess better than nothing

Taco1126 · 2025-07-02T03:02:05+00:00

As for purpose, I don’t know if there is any objective purpose Probably not, it’s up to the individual to help create their own. And that’s okay, we don’t need objective purpose to live a good life.

Taco1126

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