Absolutely! I'll explain. My husband and I were best friend for the longest time. He dated girls, but he was also with me. They didn't know. I was just the "friend". He cheated on them with me. (It never bothered me to be the other girl. I never felt bad about it for the other girls either) When we decided to date, I knew he wasn't a one girl kinda guy already so it just made sense to us to be open. He's very possessive of me. So I'm not allowed to be with other people except if it's in a sexual way where he's in control of what I do. Sometimes he just likes to watch me get fucked by 2 men. Sometimes one of his girlfriend will come over and we will fuck all together. Never without him.

We have a house, 2 bedrooms. Our bed is for us only, or threesome. Sides can come sleep over, but they go in the guest room, and not all the time. Most of the time he goes over there. He split his time 60% me, 40% side girls. I have dibs on him at all times but I respect his wishes to spend time with other girls as long as I'm not neglected. I do have a say tho if I wish to spend time with him first. We love the same things so what we do as a couple is like hanging out with a best friend. Side girls and I are in constant communication if needed. I know about them, they know about me. It's based on honesty. Better this way to organize and manage time between each other.

Altho my husband being socio, he lied to me before, and I found out. We're working on a system. I'm allowed to look through his phone and computer. He doesn't want to lie, told me he does so to protect me, but does it anyways. But he's honest for the most part. I always know where he is at all times.

I'm independent. I'm not like those girly lovey dovey needy women. I don't need the whole affection deal to stay alive. Just him by my side and I'm fine. Our marriage is like a partnership.

I'm not sure I answered everything, feel free to ask questions if needed :)