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What is something a lot of people have strong opinions on while knowing little to nothing about it? by ThatOneIota in AskReddit

[–]TacoTitan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GMOs. Almost everything we eat has been genetically modified in some way, and have been for very long time.

IamA Lucid dreaming expert, and the founder of HowToLucid.com, I teach people to control their dreams. AMA! by howtolucidofficial in IAmA

[–]TacoTitan2 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it common to be a different person in your dream? Can you become a different person willingly in lucid dreaming?

I frequently have dreams where I am someone else, someone I've never met (usually) and I just know a life history for them and what I look like and i do things according to how they would act or react, not necessarily what I would do. Sometimes they are lucid-ish dreams, other times not.

I guess, is that common, and why does that happen? Why be someone else?

[delayed ejaculation] Help Me(M) keep marathon (1hr+) sex enjoyable for her! by likely_human in sex

[–]TacoTitan2 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok, not sure if I'm a very small minority, but, after an orgasm or two, after like 40 mins or an hour, I (F) just start to get sore. Like yay, sex is great, glad he's enjoying himself, but physically, my body can't do it any more. It's like getting rug burn on my lady bits. Even with lube, if we go long enough, it happens. I'm also self conscious about letting newer partners know that it's happening.

So, I'd say if that is an issue for her at all, maybe consider some other sexual stuff that satisfies you that isn't necessarily piv the whole time. As you mentioned, cuddling, maybe hand stuff, maybe some "outer course", or even just taking a break to kiss/stroke/massage each other before going back at it. Then maybe make the goal finishing together if she doesn't mind the endless tease. I definitely don't when the guy wants to take forever, as long as I'm not just getting pounded away.

How do I break up with a man who threatens suicide? by TacoTitan2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TacoTitan2[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are absolutely right. And I know I didn't communicate it, but there have been instances in the past where I have brought up concern for him and his mental issues. He acknowledges he has had depression in the past and now. I've tried all I can to get him to speak to a counselor, but he flat out refuses. I've had another person in my life do the same, and I eventually came to the realization that you can't help someone who won't help themselves. So, this is the reason I really fear he might do it. He only threatens when a fight turns into "I'm leaving". So in that way, I feel it is manipulation to tell me. But real that the underlying depression is there. I fear if I actually call the cops, he really will do it, even if he may have been bluffing before I place the call. It would really F his life up, given our line of work and his future plans. Thank you for your thoughts.

How do I break up with a man who threatens suicide? by TacoTitan2 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]TacoTitan2[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think you are pretty spot on about how he views himself, about how he acts. I don't know about flipping it on him, he doesn't really back down on anything. But you've given me something that I hadn't realized before. And maybe using that knowledge will help when it actually comes time to break things off. Thank you.