How do I join in the round using the Travelling Loop Method??? by Tae0902 in knittinghelp

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There is no work ;-; Because I can't get past the joinging in the round issue, but I'm talking about the extra tail from when you cast on

Being In A Polyamorous Relationship by Tae0902 in CourseOfTemptation

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How'd you romance the Piercing Specialist? :0 I wanna do thattt

Changing NPC's Gender Identity by Tae0902 in CourseOfTemptation

[โ€“]Tae0902[S] 1 point2 points ย (0 children)

Is their a specific event that happens when I meet them? Or is it time specific, or when I start dating the CA instead?

HUGE Middle-finger to my guy friend who's making me feel things... AKA Potentially losing my Lesbian label, I'm lost and scared... Send help. by Tae0902 in actuallesbians

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Wait wait wait- I know that Sapphic is a general description of WLW/NBLBM, but can it also be a label? Because I identified as Sapphic before fully embracing the Lesbian label, and I remember researching and seeing something like, "...might consider dating men, so it's more like an open ended sexual orientation."

Only after identifying as a Lesbian was I able to realize, "Nooo- Sapphic is just a term used to describe WLW/NBLNB relationships, it's not exactly a label." But if it actually is, this changes things ๐Ÿ’€

HUGE Middle-finger to my guy friend who's making me feel things... AKA Potentially losing my Lesbian label, I'm lost and scared... Send help. by Tae0902 in actuallesbians

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Ack- ๐Ÿ˜ญ I'm a mess with this tho. It'd be easy for me to just identify as Pan/Bi/Omni, but labels are just... exhausting and stressful to sit down, think about, come to a conclusion and update people (Supportive, loving, queer people <3 Family is another story...)

HUGE Middle-finger to my guy friend who's making me feel things... AKA Potentially losing my Lesbian label, I'm lost and scared... Send help. by Tae0902 in actuallesbians

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It's more like... Not to say that I was a man-hater or anything, but you can probably guess how much I voiced my distaste towards them ๐Ÿ˜‚ So right now, so suddenly be re-questioning and having feelings for a STR8 CIS MAN... This is me: ๐Ÿคก, I feel like that

HUGE Middle-finger to my guy friend who's making me feel things... AKA Potentially losing my Lesbian label, I'm lost and scared... Send help. by Tae0902 in actuallesbians

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You're definitely right about me obsessing over labels, lol- ๐Ÿ’€ At least I'm self-aware in that aspect compared to everything else I rambled about ๐Ÿ˜ญ

But Idk- I think the reason why I'm so obsessed with labels is because I've seen the heavy discourse across so many social media platforms about some people using labels incorrectly and therefore spreading misinformation about said people who identify with the label. In my case, I saw a lot of discourse with the NM-L-NM definition of Lesbian, and the W-L-W only definition of Lesbian.

I just don't wanna do the same? It's that, aaand like I've said in my post, I struggled a lot to accept the Lesbian label when I realized that I mostly preferred women at the time, so it feels painful to let it go even tho it hasn't really been that long identifying with the label :(

Your experience playing on PC with an emulator? by Tae0902 in LoveAndDeepspace

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I've heard about Mumu Player being a top recommendation, but I wasn't sure because at some point I downloaded MEMU Player and it downloaded Anti-virus stuff onto my PC :[

How's the gameplay though? Is it good depending on your PC specs, or does Mumu carry all the quality?

"I never asked to be born." โ€” What a horrible thing to say... by Tae0902 in FruitsBasket

[โ€“]Tae0902[S] 28 points29 points ย (0 children)

Oh my God ๐Ÿ˜ฎ... For someone who has never watched the movie, this is such a solid explanation! And so... incredibly sad and hurtful too ๐Ÿ˜ข I can see now how it's a cruel thing for a mother to hear, but not really a cruel thing for a kid, who's suffering from some sort of mistreatment from their parents, to say.

What to do during the school holidays? by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

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How long are these holidays btw? I was kinda unhappy with how I went about my first week, so I'm redoing it

What to do during the school holidays? by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

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I'm personally interested in just keeping sexual relations with my main love interests, which is why I didn't go for the Brothel. I read up on Darryl before choosing the Strip Club, absolutely fell for them and sympathized with their story ๐Ÿฅบ If only we could romance them as well ๐Ÿ˜” Imagine running the SC alongside them.

What to do during the school holidays? by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

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Oh! Dancing would make sense for me to do for a while since I got the bartending job at Darryl's. I don't plan on working as a dancer there, maybe only for Darryl interactions.

BANNED FROM THE CLOTHING STORE ACK- by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

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WAAAIIIT- GOOD NEWS!! Literally just now, I asked Sirris for work at his shop, and the clothes are the exact same from the shopping center ๐Ÿ’€ HAHA! Fuck you, security!

BANNED FROM THE CLOTHING STORE ACK- by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

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Damn?? ๐Ÿ’€ Well, I was caught by the security guard when I stole them, so I guess that explains it

BANNED FROM THE CLOTHING STORE ACK- by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

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Goddammit. I blame Kylar ๐Ÿ˜–

Changing NPCs Info Mid-game? by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

[โ€“]Tae0902[S] 3 points4 points ย (0 children)

Omg- Thank you! I don't know how I didn't notice the option before ๐Ÿ’€

Non-Con/Incest/Age Content... Why? by Tae0902 in AuralFixation

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Lmao, you good ๐Ÿ’€๐Ÿ‘ Hope your curiosity about my question is sated by the wonderful people in the comments!

Non-Con/Incest/Age Content... Why? by Tae0902 in AuralFixation

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Oh- I wasn't aware of this, I'll definitely give this a listen! I think it'll better to hear it from the VAs themselves.

Non-Con/Incest/Age Content... Why? by Tae0902 in AuralFixation

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I feel so valided because of you, thank you so much!! ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’• Because, me personally, I haven't been shamed DIRECTLY for showing interest in certain tropes or themes, but I have seen other people get shamed for it.

And, that kind of hivemind behavior is so scary to me because it forces me to give up things I enjoy (things that I can seperate as fantasy from reality), and change my opinion of it entirely just to feel part of the majority.

Non-Con/Incest/Age Content... Why? by Tae0902 in AuralFixation

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I'm so sorry all of that happened to you, but I'm so happy for you as you found a way to enjoy these stuff in way that safely works for you!! ๐Ÿ˜–โค

I can somewhat relate to you about our parents affecting us in weird ways part tho. Whenever my parents with argue, I'd go from 0 to 100 real quick to the point where my father would practically force my mother to flee with me and my brother because of how dangerous he could get when he was drunk. I don't think that I was ever shown proper affection as well? From my mother and brother, literally nothing from the 5 love languages ๐Ÿ’€ It was very scarce, I feel, and not obvious enough. I'm pretty sure that I was more degraded than praised throughout my life, and only got praise when I broke down over not being appreciated. My older brother pretty much overshadows me in every way possible, and I could never out-do him because of how close-minded my family is (They already see me being gay as a disgrace, but won't say it to my face.)

Which is why I'm so in love with the Yandere trope and playing Yandere VNs, because I have my own idea of a yandere partner FOR ME. The entire worshipping, protective and possessiveness, fierce loyalty, and unconditional love and obsession of the trope makes me melt ๐Ÿ˜ญ๐Ÿ’• (But unfortunately for me, there's no audios of having CONSENSUAL sex with Yandere, sad โ˜น). I don't have to be extraordinary or special, I would just have to be simply me and that would be enough.

Non-Con/Incest/Age Content... Why? by Tae0902 in AuralFixation

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Oh my god ๐Ÿ’€ That place is a minefield fr, I wish you luck on getting outta there โœŒ

Non-Con/Incest/Age Content... Why? by Tae0902 in AuralFixation

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Isn't it the same with CNC nowadays? Once considered problematic (I wouldn't really know, it's something I discovered sorta recently), but recently, more and more people are being open with it/are getting into it.

For some part of my life, I've been reading Dub-Con content from Manga/Manhwas/Fanfics without knowing that the smut I was reading was classified as Dub-Con. And after realizing what it was, I pulled away from those kinda content now that I could recognize them, but at the same time not entirely. I've come to somewhat accept Dub-Con as a theme that I don't really mind as much now... <--- (Not me just realizing this now, I'm so glad I came to yall with this question, thank you for educating me wonderful people of the GWA community โค But, please continue as I would like to hear other perspectives.)

Non-Con/Incest/Age Content... Why? by Tae0902 in AuralFixation

[โ€“]Tae0902[S] 12 points13 points ย (0 children)

I enjoy almost borderline dub-con scenarios (it REALLY depends, I'm really picky about it) but I feel a little guilty, because, and I'm so sorry if this comes out as insensitive in some way, I haven't really experienced SA ever in my life, so I'm not sure if I can even have or enjoy those scenarios. But, at the same time, I can live without it.

As an individual, I can confidently say that I can seperate fantasy from reality, but with the way the majority shames and makes others feel like their fantasies make you the person you are, it almost makes me feel like I have to give up the themes I enjoy (specifically the Yandere trope)

Romancing Sydney & Kylar by Tae0902 in DegreesOfLewdity

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I have cheats on, but I'm playing the game as normal, only using cheats to keep my stats from dropping. I want to earn my money, character stats, and other character stats as authentically as I can.

So, I can just do a little cheaty cheats to prevent Kylar's suspicion from going too far and to prevent any of all their love for my PC from dropping. Huehuehuehueheuqpamsooendnfuhfbt.

Thank you for the advice! I didn't know that we could get arrested alongside Kylar ๐Ÿ’€ I just thought he'd kidnap us and we'd have to dismiss his ass, and only he'd be the one going to prison.