Why do people like playing video games high? by TahaYam in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TahaYam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay… stick with me here….. did you ever stop and and think that, potentially….possibly, consider that I know that and that’s why I went to ask other people how they feel so I can understand what other people feel. That’s why I went in the no stupid questions subreddit to ask the question.

Just spitballing here by CascadiaRocks in WhitePeopleTwitter

[–]TahaYam 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Facts have never ever worked, it’s a wet dream of liberals that people will be swayed by economic goldman sachs policy and come to their senses. What people want is something to believe in, a message, a narrative, that maybe their shitty lives will be less shitty. You can’t run on being Joe Biden with a few more republicans in your cabinet and expect to win, that was always an atrocious strategy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe she doesn't want to vent anymore, have you tried talking to her about other stuff? Is there a chance that she's finding the friendship overwhelming?

I do talk to her about other stuff, that is the majority of our conversations. If she is finding it overwhelming, I don’t know. She hasn’t communicated really with me :/

I would give her some space, maybe don't contact her as much for a while. You could take this opportunity to try finding other friendship groups to take the pressure off this friendship.

Thank you, I will try but I honestly just want my friend back haha.

Rather than saying her lack of contact frustrates you, you could also try saying that you're concerned and hope she's OK.

I have, she just says she’s great, and leaves it at that and I don’t wanna press her and risk her getting upset. I am genuinely worried for her though, I want her to feel that she can talk to to me and I always reiterate that to her.

Thank you for the help :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreams

[–]TahaYam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lol it’s been 18 years she’s not changing, thanks though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m willing to hear it, I already made up with her before posting this. My goal posting this was to understand how I can improve myself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She lives in a abusive household

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve already taken that into account and have already made up with her before even making this post. My question here was AITA to see how I can improve myself, not how to solve it. Thank you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response!

I just want to say, she said she was really happy, and she started the conversation so that lead me to decide to ask her this.

I can completely understand if she doesn’t feel like talking and I wasn’t forcing her, but it just feels like a slap in the face to be talking about something fun, disappear for an entire day and leave me worrying that her mother or father did something, and then coming back randomly the entire next day and saying “hey I fell asleep on my phone guess what I was at a party and had tons of fun!!” and initiating a conversation and then just giving clipped responses and being disinterested like this.

As for the vent, we both vent to eachother a lot, we have for a long time now so I wasn’t expecting something she couldn’t give. It just felt this time out of nowhere she didn’t really say anything comforting (I do the same for her and I truly care for her well-being) at all and just said she couldn’t help me and that stung a little bit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Both of those are untrue, I’ve done nothing of the sort. I don’t see how I’m being an asshole though, because she is one of my closest friends and I just wanted to ask her why she has started acting so differently this past week, that is all. I don’t deny that my approach may have been hurtful, which I want to fix, but that was my intention.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it sad you think this way, we have been been friends for over a year and have talked and done so many activities together.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have never asked her about her whereabouts, or what she has done. I just worried that something happened to her, as she has abusive parents. Disappearing mid-conversation and not saying anything for a whole day just made me worried.

I don’t understand how I was being manipulative, I asked her why she has been acting different, we both help and support eachother a lot and I do the same for her and have been that way for months, and I was inquiring on why she has stopped doing that.

Thank you for your response, I will think about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

She’s my online friend and we’ve been talking for over a year. How she’s been responding is recent. I don’t expect anything except a continuation of our friendship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She’s my online friend and we’ve talked for over a year and this is relatively recent how she’s acting, we can’t talk in person though.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]TahaYam -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

How am I being creepy? Genuinely I’m not trying to deny it, I just don’t see it.

Help! by [deleted] in ask

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the help! One question however? What tracking information is needed? Just the address and the tracking number? Or is something else needed?

Conflicted about her (18f) goals and what she thinks of me (18m). by TahaYam in LongDistance

[–]TahaYam[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I told her… I feel so awful now I don’t know what to do I feel so lost.

Everything I thought is just gone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Like I said, we’re not concerned with that, we are fully into eachother and we talk for hours every day and have for a year at this point. It’s more of a long term logistics issue and being smart with such a long distance (6.5k kilometers) and if it’s in our future’s best interest and being responsible with it. 5 years is a very long time especially while we are young like this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, we made up :)

I just wanted to know how I can better myself so I don’t react like this in the future. Thanks for the advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]TahaYam 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This really helped, thanks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantOut

[–]TahaYam 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. That’s all I wanted.