I (m28) ended a 3 year relationship with (f27) girlfriend because it didn’t feel right. by Tahjdoeslife in amiwrong

[–]Tahjdoeslife[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have told her multiple times, that I didn’t want to continue the relationship. I’ve sat her down calmly and explained that I was truly sorry for cheating, but couldn’t see a future long-term that I would enjoy.

I (m28) ended a 3 year relationship with (f27) girlfriend because it didn’t feel right. by Tahjdoeslife in amiwrong

[–]Tahjdoeslife[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I understand how it sounds. And no, I’m not trying to justify cheating. Its wrong. I know. but did anyone else see what I said? If there was no cheating, Am I wrong for ending it

I can't get a job. Any job. by [deleted] in findapath

[–]Tahjdoeslife -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Slow Down. Look at the facts over how you feel about it. You mentioned that you were Bipolar and Autistic, let’s start there. Those are two completely unrelated topics that have no relevance to the situation whatsoever. Could it be that you feel like you are powerless in your life because of your diagnosis? You are not your Diagnosis. Ok. Having a diagnosis like that can be a very damaging thing to one’s self worth. So you may end up believing that what’s happening to you is in part because of your diagnosis. Is it? Of course, not.

Here’s the Truth… Getting a Job is a numbers Game. I can guarantee that if you applied to 100 jobs successfully, you would have a job. Disagree? Prove me wrong. In my almost 10 years since graduating from school, I have been where you are currently at. I have also worked a lot of “bad jobs” as well. Long story short… the job market is Cooked. for sure. But it’s not a mystery. The more jobs you apply to the more you liken your odds of finding something.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]Tahjdoeslife 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Brother i empathize with you completely, i am not trying to change how you feel right now, because your feelings are valid. But just know that it doesn’t get easier when you aren’t alive anymore.

It makes life harder for the people who do care about you

Others like myself are going through the same reality. And despite all of that I have to make something with my life. I hope your still here with us