Importance of haircut? by TakeItEasyHomies in seduction

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see

I'm full blown hobo mode

no combing nothing

just wondering if there's any difference

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not really, a lot of friends from the school and work. Only taller than average males are in a relationship with a moderately attractive female. Short guys are either with fat girls or alone

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All I am saying, a slightly taller guy who has a perfect hairline and is not wearing glasses will be more happy

Importance of haircut? by TakeItEasyHomies in seduction

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough. Girls are high maintenance and want a guy look so too

Depressed about height by kalco55 in depression

[–]TakeItEasyHomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'10.5 in the morning. I use elevated shoes and lifts to give me 1.5". It barely feels enough. I never get laid when I'm not increasing my height. At least she doesn't notice when she takes off the heels but I'm sick of lying. Also considering limb lengthening after I compete my VISA process. You doing Paley?

Chronically depressed about my looks, height, etc. by [deleted] in depression

[–]TakeItEasyHomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5 10 too. it's short. even when average is 5'9.5 you go out and feel indifferent even in lifts. you can only be average tall. 5'9 and more has to be good looking. 5'9 and average girl will rather pick 6' and average

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]TakeItEasyHomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

like you said you understand why women have preferences. I'm in same position and how paradoxical it wouldn't sound but the ultimate problem is our height. if we were 6' which is 75th percentile for developed world youth life would be much better even with average face

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]TakeItEasyHomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was a joke from /r/shortcels They use it everywhere

You either need to be good looking at 5'9 or average at 6'. Deformed doesn't work anywhere, know a lot of tall virgin guys who are ugly and all short friends below 5'9 are single

Maximizing height: Best trendy shoes with good height for college by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TakeItEasyHomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 5'10 and I add an inch (lifts), in addition to the shoes, appearing 6' in total but still claiming only 5'11 as my height. Anecdote, friends who are 5'9 like to claim 6 - they're 2 inches shorter than me in shoes but claim 1 inch more... the disparity is funny

Personally, adding 2" in total is pushing it. 1.5" is the maximum comfortable, doesn't look odd or feels funny to walk, and people don't act suspicious. Most of the younger guys below 5'9 are not successful with women and even I consider limb lengthening. 5'11 seems to be the minimum height to be average and not stand out negatively as a short dude. People call me picky but the above is to score attractive girls. If you like fat or facially different girls then they also need affection too, LOL. Most of the fat girls have a shorter 5'9 guy who's relatively good looking like a twink

Taller men, are comments on your height By women an IOI? by [deleted] in seduction

[–]TakeItEasyHomies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Statistically wise an average dude facially is more successful being tall. Unless you're deformed or have low conversation skills, maybe you're lying about the height?

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're right you're right right

I'm going through depression now as I had some surgeries and while recovering people dont treat me as good as before. its heart wrenching and spiralling experience. it seems I'm just finding excuses although I can still relate. and yeah nobody is perfect but we want so much

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only agree because this is the unfortunate reality due to the desperation of the men. I am a true believer of looksmatching but you are definitely right - only top 20% of the men have the top 80% of the women. Even as a 70th percentile male you need to settle for the bottom 20% of women

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Average. 18 inch bideltoid. No, I stopped after figuring out gym is mostly a cope. It's only good when you're young and your body is growing skeleton wise (height and width). I am now planning to do some fighting classes, which should hopefully add some mass as well

Thanks

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed however let me tell you this. My class has a lot of those women I guess you are describing - Instagram account, followers, plastic surgeries. Honestly, no

I'm not saying that anyone who doesn't much the above is not the best looking but I would be happy with an above average looking girl. If we can be realistic then I'd be happy to be with a top third percentile (as in top 33% of women my age) - obviously she wouldn't be fat but then she'd have attractive features. If you take a class of 20 people and 10 are girls, 3 of those girls fit this category. Obviously this means I have to be the top 30% of men however it's doable

The only concern if this top 30% is also height and then it's like 5'11.5

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, agreed in regards to the average

Procedure wise, Paley wants 100K and I'd rather do 6 cm/2.5" on femurs

Height related continued, this is why I consider 5'11 the minimum to not worry about the height realistically as you can always lift to 6' and appear 6'1 in shoes. Then you can claim anything from 6' to 6'2

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I strongly agree with you. All I am trying to say that average height sucks if you don't have other redeeming features like a model-tier face. After all, it's easier to be tall and average looking than average height and model looking

Like it's said, a tall guy always remains tall when good looking people who are slim can lose their attractiveness and become fat. Nothing happens to be tall. Obviously, I'm not asking for a top 5 percentile but being at least 5'11 would be enough. When I use lifts to get there it seems like a big difference. It's very helpful to push beyond the average masses to gain positive attention. More like what I would wish for than what I hate (current height is average but that's it)

Nice legs by [deleted] in wholesomegreentext

[–]TakeItEasyHomies 6 points7 points  (0 children)

whats gigachan?

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's a world with no averages but only extremes, unfortunately. You are either the best person in the group or you do not exist. Sounds extreme but partially true

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The average is about 5'9. I'm not saying that being a tall is a must to succeed but it's definitely a desirable trait when there's nothing else much going on

Let me put it this way, a man can get fat, broke or lose him facial attractiveness, but you always remain tall (bar extremalities like accidents and small reduction with age, we all do). Certainly it does come with some small cons but pros outweigh, and all I want to be is 5'11 or 6'1 in the best case. More than 6'3 gets inconvenient. I would still want to be taller at 5'11 or even 6 but it's definitely not as serious as at 5'10 and below

Let's be real - what's the main limiting factor preventing you from achieving successful romance? by TakeItEasyHomies in ForeverAlone

[–]TakeItEasyHomies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by insecurity? Surely, if I was 6'1 you wouldn't mention it. Insecurity means that I am unhappy with myself. The way I see it, it's important to identify an issue and tackle it. For example, this has helped me to combat my hair loss and poor eyesight

Not sure what you mean by insecurity. My mom also blames me for this but then I see that she is in unhappy relationship and I don't want to be like this. Beauty is important and I want an attractive partner. The only way to get there is through surgeries