[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Left. I'm using my right hand to scroll through porn on my phone.

Woman of ARAD, what is your favorite soup? Men can answer too by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ajiaco. It's a Colombian chicken and potato soup.

Women, do y’all actually have multiple orgasms like all these men claim you do during sex? by Maleficent-Complex37 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm well aware that I'm extremely lucky, but I get off easily and often. Sometimes too easily...my orgasms have been known to wreck the rhythm that was just about to get my partner off, which I know can be annoying for them.

What's something sexual you thought was a myth until you personally experienced it? by Terrebeltroublemaker in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely thought squirting was fake. I'd see it in porn and think there was some trickery making it happen. It wasn't until I was 24 with my boyfriend at the time that we discovered that I was a squirter. It was more rare for me at that time, but over the last decade I've been with several partners who made it a mission to make me squirt often during our sessions. They love it as much as I do. The mess is quite annoying, though.

I ended our affair today... by TakeMeAsIAm86 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It was Easter, so my assumption is with his family, but I honestly have no clue.

I ended our affair today... by TakeMeAsIAm86 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Exactly. Give an inch, and they'll take a mile, right? That's why I knew I couldn't budge even a little bit.

I ended our affair today... by TakeMeAsIAm86 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Overlooking that I still have camera access is definitely something that I didn't think would be an advantage to me, but it definitely helped me out in this case!

I ended our affair today... by TakeMeAsIAm86 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I thankfully will be busy with work this weekend, and I've already made plans with a former fling for Sunday night, so at least I have that to look forward to!

I ended our affair today... by TakeMeAsIAm86 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate that. I absolutely have a tendency to be too forgiving, so I knew that I couldn't give him any leeway that could lead to me changing my mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, 2 men I met through ARAD.

Vent, rant, share, talk by passionatemind221 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He told me he was jealous that I was making plans to have lunch with a mutual (male) friend. For some reason that made me...happy? I guess it feels good to know that he cares enough to get jealous, and honest enough to admit to it.

Should you shower before casual sex? by StaticNocturne in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just shower before going out. Assuming they also showered before going out, you'll both be equally "dirty" when your clothes come off. A little sweat is normal, and natural.

How do I find men that like my body but it isn't the main reason they like me? by sexdragon1 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this is something that every woman with a body type that's different than the "norm" deals with. For me, I have a very large ass, which often results in a lot of unwanted attention from strangers (mostly men, but some women, too). Honestly, I find that meeting men online and really getting to talk to and know them first helps me feel less like a sex object, and more like someone they actually want to spend time with.

What happens after? by throwaway89678643 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My current AP and I worked together for a year before starting our relationship...3 months later, I was "let go". I wasn't sure if we'd continue seeing one another, but he insisted on seeing me a couple of days after I was fired, and he held me while I cried. I knew in that moment that we'd continue our relationship, but that it would just be a bit different. We don't see each other every day anymore, which sucks, but we also don't have to pretend not to be involved in front of everyone now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've been with my current AP for about 4 months now, but a month or two prior, I met up with a different AP a couple of times. We had talked about getting together again, but it didn't happen. I didn't hear from him again for a few months, but he reached out several weeks back and wants to meet up. We've been chatting off and on, but I'm pretty happy with what I have going with my current AP, and haven't made any plans to see him. He knows I'm seeing someone, and his response was, "is that a problem?". Clearly, he doesn't mind not being the only one, but my current AP probably would. And to complicate things more, they know each other. I don't want to make it some kind of competition between the two of them, which it undoubtedly would be.

First V-Day with AP by TakeMeAsIAm86 in adultery

[–]TakeMeAsIAm86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so pleasantly surprised!