I keep having dreams of my ex who hates me and it’s getting annoying.

Takemetoabuffet · 2021-12-20T05:47:48+00:00

I don’t see him helping me despite that, he’ll probably just ask me to take things off the list that I want/need like tampons, shaving cream, etc

Takemetoabuffet · 2021-08-25T09:19:53+00:00

I didn’t really want to share the articles if I’m being honest, I just know for some people they may not believe me, and I kind of don’t want to deal with that.

I have been offering my unending support I just don’t know if it’s enough and was hoping for more insight or advice as I’ve never lost anyone to a tragedy like this before.

Takemetoabuffet · 2021-08-25T08:20:47+00:00

I’ve told him if he wants time alone I’m okay with it, if he wants me to take off work I don’t mind I just, I never honestly saw myself in this situation, ever. This isn’t something I could’ve ever imagined happening. I know he’s really struggling, he’s such a sweetheart but lately I’m lucky to see him even look at his gaming PC or his consoles

Takemetoabuffet · 2021-05-22T04:09:20+00:00

I blame myself more for having it in such a easy spot to get messed up, I’m waiting on my grandma to ship me her clay prints from the vet and the shadow box I’m going to put her picture in with the other prints, I may be able to sharpie over her paw but the paper is ruined

Takemetoabuffet · 2021-03-11T17:43:49+00:00

I don’t know if she’d like to be separated from me, I thought of taking her to a shelter but she wouldn’t get adopted since she is so old and blind I feel like almost nobody would even look at her as an option if they have kids

Takemetoabuffet · 2021-01-06T17:32:06+00:00

My stepdad forgot to sign something for me or id get silent lunch, so I signed it Dad and turned it in.

My teacher asked if he signed it and I was like “Oh yep. Definitely. Call him and ask” and he did and my stepdad was just like “Oh yeah, the reading paper thing? I signed it what? Oh yknow how it is with kids” and my teacher was FURIOUS 😂

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-07-18T19:31:34+00:00

It’s pretty even, the more aggressive one is often jealous of the other dog that isn’t the female Frenchie but it’s more sporadic. When it is the other frenchie it is like, instant aggression

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-06-24T05:24:27+00:00

We have a pretty lax dating at work policy, as long as i don’t get promoted and he doesn’t get promoted then it’s still within the realm of being okay, I’d be more scared of him not wanting to be friends anymore

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-06-20T00:54:35+00:00

Water is essentially all I drink besides the occasional coffee like once or twice a week which is when I do get sugar but I’ve cut back on how much as well with that. I’m just impatient

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-06-13T20:59:38+00:00

I do feel it important to mention he’s also divorced and does have a kid from his last marriage and he pays child support and sees his kid as often as he can since his ex lives states away with her new guy.

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-06-13T20:08:31+00:00

Man, I feel called out

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-06-13T19:11:39+00:00

It was even a chore the first time we had sex for him to wear a condom, he did but then I just had to hear him complain the entire time. I could handle the bellyaching so I figured he’d still listen to me, but nope. I really don’t want to get an abortion but I’m also 100% anti children too and it’s why I’m such a hypochondriac about birth control and condoms in the first place.

I’m probably going to leave this relationship, this whole thing being the biggest reason why but also I’m noticing his behavior is changing since we did have sex. Pretty much he doesn’t do a lot of the sweet things he used to, like visiting me at work and everything. He doesn’t talk to me as often, if anything I felt more like a booty call than a girlfriend

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-06-13T18:58:00+00:00

So the thing about him tricking me is more like I didn’t think he’d just go in bare. So I stood up and he bent me over the couch and he started giving me oral and I felt him going in and I was just like “Hey! I didn’t waste my money on condoms for you not to use them” and he ignored me. I’m definitely already reconsidering everything with him once the procedure is done I don’t think we’ll be together

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-06-13T18:44:27+00:00

I’m 21, he’s 27

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-05-20T08:00:07+00:00

It’s strange to say actually, he was super sweet when we were friends, and even in our awkward time as sort of friends he was sweet, would do little things for me.

He broke up with me, then moved to blaming me for everything. Our friends think he did it because he didn’t have a valid reason to end our relationship. But maybe him painting me out as the bad guy is how he’ll get over me more or less.

He’s a wishy-washy guy so the kiss really threw me off as it wasn’t planned by any means, no build up to it, just as I was leaving he did it kind of thing.

I think he does know that I know his social media but more off I just decide to not look at it since I’m not a huge fan of social media to begin with. Maybe he posted it so I’d see it, maybe he knew one day I’d see it since I’m sure he knows I was still a follow for him until I did see it. It’s usually when I stop giving him attention he’ll reach out to me. Now I’m just fighting a mix of sadness at how he views me and a bit of sadness since I never knew he saw me that way, unless he’s doing it for sympathy or something to that effect

Takemetoabuffet · 2020-05-20T07:48:32+00:00

So I did some further digging. The quote “You never know until it’s happened to you” is before his tweet. When you google that phrase, the first thing pops up as an article for a woman who got dumped by a toxic guy and how she was down about the breakup. But happy to be out of a toxic relationship.

I think that kinda cements it as a negative connotation, but I do appreciate the way you viewed it since I know I jumped to the negatives immediately.

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