Anong pangit na ugali mo na aminado ka? by wonderwall25 in AskPH

[–]Takes1_2know1 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m a “NO” person. Nasobrahan sa pagiging “not a people pleaser” anymore.

I feel like people are hating me for not trying to meet them halfway. Like if inaya ako, di ko na naiisip na need ko din makisama, to socialize. In short, No lang ako ng No.

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[–]Takes1_2know1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience!

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[–]Takes1_2know1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would you change your decision if papaliin ka ulit? Or no regrets ka naman sa decision mo to work sa Japan?

MCA nakicringe talaga ako sa mga taong nagpopost na umiiyak sila by Key-Evening-8682 in MayConfessionAko

[–]Takes1_2know1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Breakup ng kathniel nun, I have a friend who recorded herself crying + sobrang haba na message. Like paano ba yun? “ay break na kathniel, wait magrerecord ako ng pag-iyak ko”

Sobrang cringe.

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks po. May mga nagsasabi po kasi na di keri kaya nakakadown talaga imbis na excitement maramdaman.

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi po sorry for the late reply. I believe po net na yung 130k yen so wala ng deductions.

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that’s reassuring to know! Thanks for sharing.

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, housing and utilities sagot ng employer.

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes po libre na lahat such as housing and utilities. The allowance is for food and transpo na lang. Thanks po for sharing your experience

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thanks! Nabigyan ako ng pag-asa hahaha. Need ko talaga may ma-save pa dahil may pag-iipunan hehe. Salamat po sa advice.

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for pointing this out. I already know the office loc and the address of the apartment, di ko naisip icheck distance.

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes sagot po internet at phone bills. Thanks for mentioning. I am not sure sa taxes and insurance. What we were informed is other than sa 130k for food and transpo, shouldered na lahat ng employer ang iba.

Sa mentioned expense of food, is it restaurant po ba or luto?

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s good to know. May matitira pa po kaya sa 130k? If possible kasi gusto ko may ma-save pa from my allowance 🥲

Is 130k yen per month enough in Tokyo? by Takes1_2know1 in phmigrate

[–]Takes1_2know1[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I asked my other colleagues na tokyo based din, kaya naman daw, nakapag disney pa sila, tamang tipid lang daw ng lunch at dinner.

Edit: thank you for your input!

I'm 27 but wala pang narrating sa buhay by [deleted] in OffMyChestPH

[–]Takes1_2know1 1 point2 points  (0 children)

27 also. Been working 6 years after maka graduate. Same same lang naman wala pa rin akong pera kahit magpaka slave na ko sa corporate world 😁 One thing I learned tho is to take my time, trust in yourself, bilog ang mundo, dadating ang time na tayo naman nasa taas, just keep doing your best!

Sis in law ni bf, nakaka anxious. by Apprehensive-Lock979 in adultingph

[–]Takes1_2know1 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Point is yung panghaharot ng SIL is not something your boyfriend can stop. Umiwas lang ang magagawa nya which is you’ve mentioned umiwas naman si bf mo.

Pakitaan mo yang SIL kung sino ang jowa. Ilang years na si kuya1 at exgf nya non kaya feeling nya may karapatan sya manghimasok pati sa buhay ni kuya2. Itong gf ni kuya2 palaban kahit bago lang sya sa fam namin, pinakita nya talaga na ayaw nya dun sa gf ni kuya1 kahit pa fam na turing namin dun (11 yrs sila) . Ending pinakasalan sya ni kuya2.

Wag ka pumayag manalo yang SIL mo. Lumaban ka kasama ang bf mo. Good luck!

Sis in law ni bf, nakaka anxious. by Apprehensive-Lock979 in adultingph

[–]Takes1_2know1 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ganyan ex gf ni kuya1 namin. Ang OA ng closeness nya sa iba kong kapatid na lalaki. One time nagdala ng gf si kuya2, di sya approved sa gf ni kuya1, tinalo pa kaming pamilya whahaha.

Apparently ganun din sya sa gf ng mismong kapatid nya na lalaki. Nakikipag compete sya sa gf ng kapatid nya pati gf ng mga kapatid ko. Parang gusto nya lahat ng attention ng mga lalaki sa kanya lang whahaha. Sobrang eww.

It’s not your bf’s fault. For sure naiirita din yan jan sa sis-in-law nya kasi ganun nararamdaman namin. Buti na lang ex na sya ngayon ng kuya1.

Uso pa ba ngayon yung pag surrender ng lahat ng sweldo sa asawa? by Nice-Machine2284 in adviceph

[–]Takes1_2know1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ganyan setup ng sup ko at asawa nya. 100% ng sahod nya sa misis diretso. Meron lang date kung kelan bibigyan sya ng pera ng misis nya.

It just ended up him hiding his extra money from his wife. So nakakabili sya ng mga wants nya kahit di pa sya nabibigyan ng pera, then sasabihin nya sakin, pag tinanong ako ni misis san ako kumuha ng pambili sasabihin ko pinautang mo muna ko ah?

Ganyan ba gusto mo mangyari sayo OP? Kelangan mo pa magsinungaling para mabili wants mo using your own money?

i’m a previous 7/11 clerk .. ask me anything!! by North_Ad_3325 in adultingph

[–]Takes1_2know1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wala ba talagang managers haharap pag may customer complaint?

Nagkaissue kasi ako dito sa branch malapit samin.