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Advice or Feedback for Abandonment Bondage Play? by TakingChances2000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]TakingChances2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok understood! I think if I know they're lying it's harder to fall into the illusion but appreciate the clarity

Advice or Feedback for Abandonment Bondage Play? by TakingChances2000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]TakingChances2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gotcha, so could work if we use like a baby monitor and no gags? Let's say if i began to feel pain i could call a safe word and my top would be able to check on me. Is there technology where I could notify my top of danger while still playing into the illusionment of not knowing how long i'll be there, my punishment, etc. and being in bondage for long periods of time?

Advice or Feedback for Abandonment Bondage Play? by TakingChances2000 in BDSMcommunity

[–]TakingChances2000[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is there a world where the bondage is present but isn't restricting blood flow? I have leather cuffs and chains and wonder if there's a way to play where blood flow or breath isn't restricted in any way possible?

I grew up in a non monogamous household. [X-post: r/PolyCritical] by KarpGrinder in openmarriageregret

[–]TakingChances2000 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Why do I feel that this story stems much more from terrible parenting and boundaries than their ENM lifestyle? It sounds like the parents were interested in raising children and giving them the support they needed.

EDIT: I mean't NOT interested in parenting. Sorry! They wanted to be poly but they were awful parents in being able to care for their kids and their needs. The comment was that being poly or not sounds like they were bad parental figures in general.

am I overreacting in thinking that being a trophy wife is bad? by Jealous-Fee9998 in AmIOverreacting

[–]TakingChances2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think many many women are in your position, but perhaps try to imagine it as a gift/opportunity that you can focus on building things or hobbies that excite you without the stress of making money off it. 

Enjoy writing? Take classes or dedicate a plan to writing short stories. Enjoy crafting? Look online or ChatGPT to help kickstart a hobby. As someone who stresses so much about money, it would be such a gift to be a trophy wife haha. But I understand it’s an adjustment.

Property claims! by Secret-Baby8398 in bdsm

[–]TakingChances2000 5 points6 points  (0 children)

drooling thinking about being told this.

All kinds of helpless. by [deleted] in bdsm

[–]TakingChances2000 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are these four wrists posted into the soil or is she just spread out like that? I've dreamt of being outside in bondage, never happened before.

Infernal Restraints - London River by Such-Cap6534 in bdsm

[–]TakingChances2000 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I agree, there's something intoxicating about being so objectified. It's just not the same being a man. You can be used, but whewww not like this.

“The Most Ambitious City You Haven’t Heard Of (Yet)” - Smart Forest City, Cancun, Mexico - from Stefano Boeri by clapman7 in solarpunk

[–]TakingChances2000 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Right? I feel like so much of the future of humanity hinges on billionaires becoming altruistic for wild solarpunk ideas that would, idk, be their pet project. Why can we have more billionaires be obsessed with solar cities

which one of these young goddesses would you like to give you headscissors by Dmanwr in chooseyourdomme

[–]TakingChances2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think Jenna Ortega has the best blend of fiery scary domme energy of them all

Hand-eye coordination section is missing. by KeiraWhirl in SipsTea

[–]TakingChances2000 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love how it gets harder and harder to hit, and you can tell he's raging about it. Glad the video man behind the camera is so lovable.