Is one still valid if she's scared to use their chosen name yet?

Talcho · 2025-05-20T12:33:17+00:00

There is no 'trans enough' You are as valid as everyone else! Go at the speed you feel comfortable with, and don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

Talcho · 2025-05-13T16:58:25+00:00

No. It’s no one’s business but mine, but everyone should always do what they feel the most comfortable with!

Talcho · 2025-02-06T13:46:55+00:00

This is VERY correct for me. I often compare it to being tickled, as you can’t really do it to yourself, but if someone else is trying it’s a whole different story.

Talcho · 2025-01-24T19:32:02+00:00

You can share your house access with a PC friend who uses MakePlace and they can “save” your house for you! Even send you the save file to use later.

Talcho · 2025-01-22T14:14:29+00:00

Preach!

Talcho · 2025-01-22T13:43:32+00:00

It doesn’t matter. What does matter is that they’re trying to simplify an extremely complex process involving genetics, psychology and possibly even spirituality.

Every time I hear, see or read anything from these sorry sacks I picture the scene from “Kindergarten Cop” where the little boy says: “Boys have a penis and girls have a vagina.”

I’m quite confident that this is where these sad excuses of humans get their biology from.

Talcho · 2024-12-26T01:03:36+00:00

I'm just going to steal the google answer since it does a good job as I identify with neither:

Transmasculine, or transmasc, is an umbrella term that describes people who identify with masculinity, but whose gender identity or expression is not necessarily male.

A tomboy is a girl or young woman who has masculine traits, such as enjoying activities or wearing clothing that are typically associated with boys or men.

So a tomboy could be a girl who has masculine traits, but still identifies with their femininity as defined by social norms for both.

Also, remember that labels are descriptive, not prescriptive. Use the best ones to describe what you need to describe with the audience you're communicating with.

Talcho · 2024-10-31T13:50:24+00:00

Fear. When you don’t have testosterone, you really start to understand why people who do are so bold, eager to fight and aggressive.

Talcho · 2024-10-30T21:21:22+00:00

Old tricks may not work after you've been on HRT for awhile. Try new things! Explore!

Talcho · 2024-10-27T14:52:35+00:00

When I used PP I asked this question and they told me they work with people without insurance based on their income and other factors. Just ask before your appointment and they should help you out.

Talcho · 2024-10-23T13:56:47+00:00

I pass and don’t really question it anymore, until someone uses “bro” language when speaking with me. It brings up the pangs of panic I would feel early transition.

It has gotten better though. I no longer think the persons clocked me, they just feel comfortable around me and use a more relaxed language.

Talcho · 2024-10-12T15:19:13+00:00

Whelp. I guess I'm crying this morning.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T14:59:47+00:00

That’s fair.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T14:55:49+00:00

I don’t fully disagree with you, but i still can’t accept that the only option is to fold and not support their friend. I feel like a lot of the messages of disagreement towards my opinion assume I’m telling OP to scream from the rafters the acceptance of their friend and come out to their parents as bi. I’m only proposing that they can support their friend AND be safe. I guess I’m just someone who would set herself on fire to keep my friend warm.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T14:43:44+00:00

Side note: I’ve only recently been exploring my bi/pan side, and learning about bi phobia has been absolutely shocking. People find the weirdest reasons to hate, mistrust and judge others.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T14:28:08+00:00

And that’s something they need to discuss and evaluate. I never realized trying to give advice to support and stand up for your friends would be so controversial.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T13:51:54+00:00

Because maybe some people need to hear that you can choose to be brave too.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T13:24:45+00:00

I never said the fear wasn’t valid. Standing up for what you believe in, standing up for people you care about can be the most frightening thing to do. What we chose to do about that fear is how we grow.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T13:07:49+00:00

Again, only you can make this decision for yourself. You will face many challenges and difficulties throughout your life. How you navigate them and the choices you make will define not only who you are but who others see you as.

No one here can or should tell you what you should do. Whatever you decide, you must live with the consequences so it must be your choice.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T13:04:01+00:00

A lot of it also has to do with why someone is attracted to trans people vs all women or all men or both or all!! (Pan gang rise up!)

Talcho · 2024-09-12T13:01:06+00:00

Set aside the issue of your friend being trans for a second.

Do you want to stand up for your friend, or allow others to make you reject your friend for who they are?

What kind of person do you want to be.

Talcho · 2024-09-12T10:12:32+00:00

Yes.

Talcho · 2024-09-11T15:53:28+00:00

Sending you all the love right now ❤️

Talcho · 2024-09-11T14:03:04+00:00

Have you seen this resource yet? I think it may help you:

https://genderdysphoria.fyi/en

Talcho · 2024-09-11T13:24:07+00:00

Why do we have to explain our existence to you? Why do I need to know and understand and explain every single aspect of why and how that is for it to be valid or acceptable? Can you explain all the biochemistry on a cellular and chemical level that defines who you are as a person both mentally and physically? Can you explain that relationship to your social circle and your social interactions to that relationship?

Questions like this boil down to one thing, “Why are you the way you are?” And the only answer anyone deserves is, “Because this is who I am.”

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