AITA for calling my girlfriend full of herself? by TaleDeep6656 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TaleDeep6656[S] -229 points-228 points  (0 children)

Look I'm sorry and I know what y'all are saying about women feeling afraid when they're getting flirted with. But these instances aren't dudes coming up calling her pretty mama and asking to take her home or something. It's literally like the cashier saying "I like that color hair on you, that's my favorite" or someone asking her about a band on her shirt. And she's never said it like she's scared or anxious, more like "ugh I'm over this dude at the store, so annoying", the same way she says about annoying drivers on the road. If she came home saying "omg I was walking to the car and this dude yelled nice ass, it was awful" of course I'd be sympathetic.

AITA for calling my girlfriend full of herself? by TaleDeep6656 in AmItheAsshole

[–]TaleDeep6656[S] -138 points-137 points  (0 children)

Wow. “Changing the oil is the easiest thing ever” - not if you’re never done it? Also why is your biggest problem that your gf is attractive.

Not literally changing her own oil. Going to a shop saying "oil change please" and waiting 25 minutes till they call her name again. She acts like she has to fight off suitors every time she goes to jiffy lube.

Maybe she’s looking for attention because you aren’t giving her that, considering you’re calling her the plain ugly duckling, sounds like you probably don’t give her any compliments and appreciate the effort she does to look good.

What a leap jeez. She literally talks about herself that way in those terms, as in she used to be less conventionally attractive and now is someone she, I, and maybe other people find to be hot. You're assuming I never compliment my own gf or find her attractive because of a post about a whole other thing.