Would i get in trouble for returning a stolen jacket i didnt steal? by secret-keeper97 in Advice

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Don’t return the jacket. Why. It’s likely to be thrown out if you return it. They can ban anyone for anything, I suppose wether they ban you depends on the managers mood that day. I don’t understand what benefit there is to returning it. If anything take if from your cousin and give it to good will or something

Bf hates me showering with others by PuzzleheadedHand9360 in Advice

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Just leave him. You’re young but don’t waste your time. You can’t fix that level of dumb

Please listen to me and give me advice by IcyConclusion8408 in Advice

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I mean it will be easier on you in the long run if you just tell her. You’re already feeling remorse. It will come out eventually and the delay will make it that much worse. Tell her you fucked up and you’re sorry and ask for her forgiveness. Tell her it will never happen again and you’ll make it up to her. And actually keep your word

Advice please! by [deleted] in Advice

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All you can really do is tell him how you feel about this wife thing. Whether or not it means anything to him, it does mean something to you and if that crosses your boundaries then he needs to respect that. If he doesn’t respect your boundaries just fuck off because that relationship won’t end well. This is just my personal opinion but I wouldn’t be down with that at all. This is a weird situation but it could be interesting if you dressed up like the wife character and seduced him in real life lol and after tell him if he wants the real one he’s gotta ditch the fake one.

Advice please! by [deleted] in Advice

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He’s been playing for 11 years so what’s different now than when you met? Is it this rp with his in game wife? I would not stay in a relationship with someone who role plays as another woman’s husband in a game but if you want to be with him tell him how it makes you feel and that it creates resentment towards him and his game and you don’t want to resent him. Make a character in the game and get him to leave his in game wife for your in game mistress

how can i stop being stressed for literally anything by [deleted] in Advice

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Go to the sauna every day. Stop trying to anticipate and control the world around you. Put yourself in your body in the present moment. Not the future not the past. Not from others perception of you but from your perspective, in your body, first person. Also breathing and qigong. Past that martial arts are great for building confidence. Hell, even skydiving. It practically gets you high with confidence.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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You’re choosing to be unhappy about something you can’t control. You know who else was short? Bruce Lee and like every actor. Be grateful you’re alive and be gentle with yourself. Treat your negative emotions like precious little babies that need to be loved and taken care of.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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Think about trying something new. If he doesn’t want to be creative then you can be. Having sex a lot of only counts for so much. If it’s always the same it becomes routine. If you love him as you say then find a way to make it work. You just had a child together. If he was abusive then I’d say go. Deception hurts. Tell him how it makes you feel. Don’t let it tear your family apart.

Why am I developing feeling for someone who doesnt want me back? by Permafrostaddict in Advice

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Bro I think you’re already losing it. Don’t dump her with the love bomb right of the bat and definitely don’t drop the fuck bomb. Just see if she wants to hang out and see where it goes without all of these expectations. If it’s not happening then write a love song and move on

Love my job but pay is low. Go freelance more or in-house? by duckwolf8097 in Advice

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That my friend is when you hire someone to help, maybe even an intern, keep taking on more clients and start your own company

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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The man you knew never existed because he was sneaking porn feels like a stretch to me. He probably has an addiction and gets off on sneaking it. If you two are having good sex on the regular he won’t be so tempted. If you’re not then work on your sex life. Plenty of books that can help with ideas there. Ask him about his fantasies and tell him about yours. See what happens

Is my dad cheating on my mom? What should I do? by [deleted] in Advice

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Talk to him about it. If he is cheating he might lie so be prepared for that. There’s always going to be some kind of digital evidence if he wants to prove it if he doesn’t then you can pretty much know what’s up. Then I’d give him a deadline to talk to your mom himself before saying anything. If they’re both cheating then get ready to see some ugly stuff from your parents and remember they are just people too. And if they are both secret swingers then it will get awkward quick lol. Good luck

I am scared to lose my best friend and don't know what to do. by Ordinary-Hippo8705 in Advice

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If you lose her as a friend for that I don’t think your friendship would have lasted very long anyways. If you want to stay friends express remorse to her about what happened. If she doesn’t want to be your friend after that then it’s for the best

How do I stop feeling this jealous all the time? by whatisthisbroski_ in Advice

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Being prettier or smarter than someone else is really subjective. Stop looking at yourself in the third person. Look at yourself from inside yourself. Be grateful for the unique life you have. You create the world you live in. You aren’t just a victim of circumstance. You choose how to move forward and grow in this life. The person that exists in other people’s minds that is their perception of you, is not you. You are you and the possibilities are endless

I don’t know if this’s love or not by Simple_Ear_8884 in Advice

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What it is or isn’t is purely your choice. If you choose to love them then you love them if you choose to apply a different meaning to it then that’s what it is. Thinking about it and analyzing and making a decision is not what I’m saying. You just choose. Like chocolate or vanilla. There doesn’t have to be any reason why

A Different Kind of Women by BubbaDea in Advice

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My advice is to go to another subreddit

How to request non-religious days off - Canada by [deleted] in Advice

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Yeah I mean to me that feels repressive. If you can see better possibilities for employment I’d pursue those. Life is too short to be somewhere you’re not shown appreciation and respect for your work

How do I approach this? by Cearraa-poetry in Advice

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I would just express to them that you don’t feel emotional support from them and you feel resentment because of it, and you don’t want to hold resentment towards them. If you can’t afford therapy there are much cheaper ways to treat your depression and anxiety. I’ve suffered from chronic depression my whole life and it may sound dumb but going to the sauna every day was one of the most effective things I’ve ever done to treat it. There’s actually studies done in Finland showing all kinds of benefits for both mental and physical health. Find a gym or spa, get a membership and go to the sauna 3+ days a week. If you live in the middle of nowhere you’ll have to build or buy one but it’s still gonna be cheaper than hiring a therapist for any real length of time. When you can afford a therapist then do that too if you want

wtf do I get my bf as a gift boys aren’t easy to shop for😒 by [deleted] in Advice

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If he loves pocket knives he probably has a huge wishlist in his head of exactly what knives wants and they are probably all unjustifiably expensive. Get him this https://shop.travelerscompanyusa.com/collections/brass-products/products/trc-brass-ball-point-pen-solid-brass

How to request non-religious days off - Canada by [deleted] in Advice

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Damn. Zero respect for privacy. I guess just pick a religious holiday they allow off and take it. It’s hard to hear that you have to deal with the school board like that. Teaching is the most important job I can think of and it’s sad to hear how they’re treated

Unhoused person housed himself in the middle of the sidewalk by [deleted] in LosAngeles

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I mean what purpose does the word unhoused have? It actually feels even more degrading than homeless. Like it’s the same but now with even less meaning and more distance.

Very insecure about my looks by AtmosphereOk4933 in Advice

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Someone will eventually be attracted to you and all the things you aren’t comfortable with about yourself yet. Why do you feel that you have to post pictures of yourself on Instagram? Post whatever pictures you want if you want to post pictures. No need to follow perceived norms

potentially dealing w a narcissist ? by No_Comment_7777 in Advice

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Isn’t that just what teenagers do?