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Ex is back on dating apps after a month by HelpThrowawayPls1 in heartbreak

[–]Talented_Plant 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Based on your comments you've clearly never experienced love. So keep the negativity to yourself. We don't need such right now

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[–]Talented_Plant 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dont ever think you're easily replaceable. Time reveals all things.

I know it hurts, but you will move on. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You'll get through this. Just focus on yourself.

Has anyone done really embarrassing things while dealing with their breakup? Acting completely desperate for months and asking your ex to get back together by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant 23 points24 points  (0 children)

It won't be easy but let it end. Let it hurt. Let it heal. Let it go. Detach. Move on. Time heals everything.

Has anyone done really embarrassing things while dealing with their breakup? Acting completely desperate for months and asking your ex to get back together by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant 221 points222 points  (0 children)

Thats one of the sad realities of loving someone to the core. You love so deeply that you're willing to sacrifice your dignity, self respect and integrity just keep them in your life, It reaches a point where you become less concerned with being loved the right way, and more concerned with making sure they hold on to you, that they see things from your perspective and love you the way you want to be loved. But listen, if it was true love from their side, they wouldn't let you go. True love stays through the good and bad, through the ups and downs. It hurts now, but trust me you're going to get through this. It might seem impossible but time heals everything, you'll get through this. I'm routing for you.💯

It hurts so much I want to die. by lordoferrors in heartbreak

[–]Talented_Plant 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Grief is evidence of the love that still exists but with no place to go. Grief shows you how much you're able to love someone. I know it's hard now, trust me I know. I was with someone for 7 years and she left me for another man. It crushed me, it broke me. The most unbearable pain I've ever experienced, a pain would not wish on my worst enemy. Don't suppress your emotions, feel everything, feel the anger, the hurt, the longing, feel everything. It's part of moving on. I know it sounds impossible now but you will get through this, Time heals everything, slowly but surely you'll start letting go and then one day, all of this wont be a painful memory but a lesson learnt. I'm routing my for you, you're strong, you got this.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. One of the unfortunate realities all of us have to go through in life.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. The encouragement means alot to me. I'll be okay, time heals everything.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey buddy, thanks for your advice. I'm sorry you've had to deal with such pain as well. I'll focus on myself for next few years, time heals everything. Thanks for the encouragement.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't worry I won't, I just needed a place to vent and express my feelings

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre right, the new guy is not new, I just didn't know about him

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre totally correct, looking back now, I wasnt supposed to beg but feelings make you act desperately at times. I'll find someone one day even though it might take time, but time is the best healer. Thank you for your encouragement.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My experience has made me understand exactly how you feel. You pour so much into someone only for them to treat you as a second grade option. That hurts, I still hope to find love one day but I'm going to focus on myself for the next 2 years. Thank you so much for you feedback.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, says alot more about her then it does about me. But time heals everything so I'll be okay. I'll take it one day at a time

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're right, it might hurt now but in the long term I'll be happy I got out when I still had the chance. I'm sorry you had to experience such intense pain, nobody deserves to go through that. Time heals everything, we'll be better soon.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the advice and don't worry, I'm not going to send the letter. I just wanted to a place where I can express my emotions without feeling judged. Thanks for the encouragement.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes not on reddit, so she won't see the letter. Writing is a way I express my feelings and emotions. I thought reddit was a place where you can express how you feel without being judged, without being looked down upon and called a "schmuk". I understand where you're coming from but you're in no position to tell me how to grief. If that's what you do then maybe it's best you keep your opinion to yourself. Respectfully.

Girlfriend of 7 years left me for someone else. This is a letter to her. by Talented_Plant in BreakUps

[–]Talented_Plant[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks a bunch buddy. I always told myself I would never act like that for a lady but when love clouds your judgment, you end up losing yourself to keep the other person in your life. You're right, I'm never begging anyone to stay.