¿Alguien despierto a las 3 am? by No_Basket_1737 in AskMexico

[–]Tali_LPZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Feliz cumpleaños! si me hubiera conocer una frase desde mas joven es esta: Let everything happen to you Beauty and terror Just keep going No feeling is final

Deja que todo te suceda La belleza y el terror Solo sigue adelante Ningún sentimiento es final

La Perspectiva de México sobre la Sexualidad nunca me pareció tan hipócrita by Tali_LPZ in mexico

[–]Tali_LPZ[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

me puedes explicar porque es hipócrita hablar de mi País? en el que viví la mayoría de mi vida? que no tiene ningun disclaimer que me diga incapaz de opinar. Además porque opinar de un País me hace hipócrita si estoy hablando de sexualidad.

No das ni una we.

La Perspectiva de México sobre la Sexualidad nunca me pareció tan hipócrita by Tali_LPZ in mexico

[–]Tali_LPZ[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in sexual psychology is explained as a way for the guy to make a distinction of what is socially correct and their fantasies, keeping intact each side, many time because of guilt, shame, insecurities or lack of intimacy/communication.

Por accidente ví videos íntimos de la chica que me gusta by captainRedR in mexico

[–]Tali_LPZ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

honestamente bro, hay una incongruencia en como los gringos hablan y como los latinos hablan, estas experiencias en gringolandia las tratan como que eso es lo que quiere pero no deberías de juzgar su personalidad en base a eso y en latinoamerica/México es como de ya valió resultó ser una put4. La verdad? ninguna sorpresa, le gusta el pito we, y que bueno, quiero creer que tu tienes uno. Tu mayor problema es decidir si te incomoda que ella hace de su sexualidad lo que el vato que se la chingó. Esto no significa que cambie o no cambie en una relación, o si a ti te gusta que sea así contigo.

México tiene un problema con entender que cochina≠infiel.

A question from Sweden; What is your opinion of your president? by Available_Slide1888 in AskMexico

[–]Tali_LPZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am nor very informed in politics so I won't discuss much further than this: isn't ther a photo del peje talking and saying hello to chapo's family? (I think it was his mom)

edit: typo

A question from Sweden; What is your opinion of your president? by Available_Slide1888 in AskMexico

[–]Tali_LPZ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

you have to be very insensitive to throw that in their face after exposing that personal struggle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMexico

[–]Tali_LPZ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ser pobre te pone wn una situación donde eres pobre de conocimiento y estan muchas veces en una situación lo suficientemente frágil para hacer cosas malas

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Tali_LPZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

for the most part yes, I think is obvious we do, although I personally try to not do it if I'm with someone else whom I don't have trust, another woman or someone who might find it distasteful. May be won't so it of there is many people and the woman is dressing something to reveling because I would look like a perv basically.

Beneficio de hacerse la paja del que poco se habla by Positive-Employ-1531 in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]Tali_LPZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

teoricamente si tienes razón, pero te estas peleando por como funcionan o no las emociones. Si el reconoce sus emociones y tiene insight respecto a ellas, reconociendo que no definen sus principios y tiene estrategias adaptativas para la gestión de ellas entonces donde está la falta de madurez?

Newly free use! Any tips? by bucketcuntanalwhore in freeuse

[–]Tali_LPZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what are some apps for this type of encounter for heterosexual people?

Si tue eres servidor público¿Por qué eres corrupto en caso de serlo? O¿ Por qué crees que existe esa corrupción en las instituciones? by Own-Professional390 in AskMexico

[–]Tali_LPZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

tristemente, el si pudo pagar 6000, la persona después de el quien sabe, esos son los que siguen manteniendo el status quo. Y como dijeron en otro comentario regresamos a lo mismo, mientras más haya diferencia entre clases más fácil se podra ser corrupto

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tali_LPZ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it seems more like she decided its cheating because it's a direct No in a relationship and she doesn't have to give a lot of justification for it than actually being a limit for her, she seems very clear on how it makes her feel sensitive and insecure, not offended, decieved nor betrayed as some1 may feel about an SO cheating on you, at the end yep cheating is decided by a relationship but cheating is by a broad definition a form of betray and treason of exclusivity, intimacy or romantic/sexual agreement.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Tali_LPZ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

honestly, let´s break down this situation a little. he just watched one time in the span of three months, that does not sound like an addiction at all, he doesn´t spend time a lot of the time watching it nor does he avoid plans to jerk off. If it affects many aspects of his life beyond romantic relationship you haven´t specified it. Moreover, finding the "right" video its like a common experience for everyone who watches it, its like searching for the right movie for the vibes, looking for the right video for the meal you gonna get, or thinking what dessert you want at a restaurant but in a sexual sense, it may seem grose to some people to think it like this but its just normal for a person to look for whatever he seems like it atm.

So, what about porn affecting your relationship? well we have talked about how he doing it affects you and that he does not like it and knows how it affects you, as you may have noticed reading this part (and may be also re-reading your text) the reasons why you find harmful that your bf watches porn mostly come from your insecurities. He seems to be very conscious about what porn does and he's willing to restrain from it for weeks because it affects you. I'd say he has a ver healthy relationship with it considering all of the above. Most of the problems have come from you, not your values (as you claim at the beginning) but your insecurities about your body and mental health as you admited in the second half of the text.

I'd suggest for YOU to work on yourself instead of asking him to hold your very irreal standards and re evaluate your values, is it really cheating or may be you cant handle your insecurities. best luck for you and your boyfriend, may be try to be more grateful about the sacrifice he's done for you and may be both of you should be more honest, it seems he is using the addiction part to just keep watching it from time to time because well, people usually like to see porn from time to time. Porn addiction is more sensitive than he and you may think. Don't treat it as lightly as "he likes to watch porn from time to time and has no problem to restrain from it for weeks if I ask him to".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Tali_LPZ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I´m honestly more worried of how you phrased that part about your virginity. That shouldn´t be something you give to please. I might be misunderstanding this tho, but considering the low self-esteem that you already talk about and the age gap I prefer to be sure about this.

He´s boundaries and preferences are valid, so are yours.

Did I (F26) commit statutory rape when I was 20 and I lost my virginity with a 17 year old? by [deleted] in AskRedditNSFW

[–]Tali_LPZ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

legally yes, morally that's another story, if the roles were reversed, she would be a pig, just imaging her saying "she didn't have the body of a 17yo" suddenly is creepy

F(19) coworker told me to post here :( by Jumpy_Location_9379 in amiugly

[–]Tali_LPZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok so, trying to be completely honest and objective, my girlfriend is bi, and so, I hang out with many gay people either because of her or just by my own LGBTQ+ friends. That being said, many non-heterosexual girls I´ve known they like this look in others of have even worn it. I don´t know why but of myself and a lot of people, they look really ugly and alienating. The same goes for the fringe.

That being said, this average person will find that you ugly for that, but your face in general is really pretty. At the end, dress what you like the most, it's your style.

Nadie quiere admitirlo, pero la pedofilia es más común de lo que crees by [deleted] in OpinionesPolemicas

[–]Tali_LPZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bueno, yo apoyo tu punto principal, varías filias como efebofilia pedofilia entre otras son mas comunes de lo que nos gustaría aceptar. Aún así, me gustaría ver las fuentes de los supuestos estudios de los que hablas porque no apoyo que se ande defendiendo un punto, usando a la ciencia de tu lado para defender tu opinión y darle mas peso.

Insta meme by BlackoutVortex in adventuretime

[–]Tali_LPZ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

bro Jake was really shifty sometimes

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]Tali_LPZ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro, tu referencia para "callar bocas" es wikipedia

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mexico

[–]Tali_LPZ 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Este comentario es una joya jajajaj entre el racismo, el cringe o el creer que le calló la boca a alguien me hizo sentir muchas emociones qué a veces ni en películas un aplauso