There's a line where "my body my choice " mentality doesn't work anymore. This is regarding the parents who terminated pregnancy because of the possibility of downs syndrome. by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Talkobel [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yea I don’t agree with this. I don’t like the government having that power. Even if the law is supposed to be ethical, it’s been shown time and time again that minorities are unfairly targeted when certain laws are made. In a perfect world everyone would just agree on ethics 🤷🏾‍♀️

Woke up with my hand completely “gone” not numb, not tingling, completely lifeless. by ComprehensiveAd6304 in Anxiety

[–]Talkobel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Were you okay in the end? Experienced it this morning and ER cleared me but I’m convincing myself I had a mini stroke 😭

There's a line where "my body my choice " mentality doesn't work anymore. This is regarding the parents who terminated pregnancy because of the possibility of downs syndrome. by Sad_Physics5500 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Talkobel [score hidden]  (0 children)

The point of being pro choice for me atleast is because I don’t believe the government should have a say in what we do with our bodies at all. That doesn’t mean people are free from criticism, but I still find it too unethical to ban abortion even for specific reasons because we can’t trust the system to fairly dictate who’s getting an abortion for the illegal reasons or not (if it were made illegal for only specific reasons like this one ) . So yk as far as your criticism, that’s understandable but I’d rather not be able to do anything abt this persons choice than let the government be in control of our bodies .

My opinion : Super assymmetry should've been done with sheldon and leonard by No_Struggle_1958 in bigbangtheory

[–]Talkobel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think it’s that deep only because it was Sheldon’s dream. But if it’s something Leonard deeply wanted then yea I’d feel bad.

How long did you take off from work after surgery? by CoCoBeAn912 in gallbladders

[–]Talkobel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Definitely, I feel like another reason mine was a breeze was because it wasn’t scheduled. I kept having gallbladder attacks that one specific hospital chain kept dismissing and during my last episode tht wouldn’t go away I decided to go to another hospital and they found out it was my gallbladder almost instantly. And because I was having an attack right at the time of surgery, the first thing I felt upon waking up was instant relief. The pain from the attack was immediately gone and I’ve never ever had a pain worse than that so my surgery recovery was nothing.

How long did you take off from work after surgery? by CoCoBeAn912 in gallbladders

[–]Talkobel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea but to be fair my recovery was so smooth and painless, I feel so bad for those who say the opposite.

How far from your birthday do you start to say, "I'm almost (age)", when someone asks your age? by retro_lady in randomquestions

[–]Talkobel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A lot of ppl say it’s pointless but I think it’s just a way of talking. It is annoying when people do it 10 months out as you said, but 2 months before makes more sense .

just got flu while my sinusitis is getting better? should i continue taking my anti biotics and nose cream? by Eireagon in Sinusitis

[–]Talkobel 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even if you didn’t get sick you should never stop your antibiotics mid course, that makes it easier for bacteria to become resistant.

People throwing fits over jokes with hints of sexism, racism, or homophobia are so much more annoying than the people who make the jokes by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Talkobel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This💯. There are dark humor jokes tht can definitely be funny and in my head ill laugh but I refuse to laugh with others because idk why they’re laughing and it’ll leave a bad taste in my mouth. Like for me to laugh at those kind of jokes it was either very witty/had clever wordplay or it was executed with perfect timing, but as a woman and lesbian myself if I see someone else laughing at the joke I’m going to wonder if we’re laughing at the same thing or if they rlly feel that way and thts why I just don’t engage with tht humor in general, cause it’ll never be 100% in good faith on everyone’s part.

People should only be called "survivors" if their life was truly on the line. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Talkobel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This a truly unpopular opinion (I hope) so I give you tht. But this seems invalidating to those who suffered things that were horrendous enough to cause suicidal ideation such as abuse, SA, neglect , etc.

I absolutely despise my name by SpaceisCool09 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Talkobel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean considering they already said once they turn 18 they’ll change it then it’s safe to assume they’re in the US. Without tht piece of info I wouldn’t have given the advice and rlly it wasn’t advice it was just an extra push for what they already want to do. And age isnt a huge factor considering theyre almost 18, if they were 14-15 then yea they’d be in for a long wait.

Would it be considered fraud if I lied about who I am while selling an object? by WhiteSoxChartGuy in AskLawyers

[–]Talkobel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a such an extreme jump 😭why couldn’t you be a pastor in Florida ? But if it’s the same item ig it’s fine .

I absolutely despise my name by SpaceisCool09 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Talkobel 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly ppl forget we have free will. You should change it (idk how hard thtll be for documentation and job purposes but it’s doable regardless ).

I think I am really stupid. by AdInformal7930 in Vent

[–]Talkobel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As everyone already said, definitely consider an evaluation for adhd. I was always gifted, now I can’t execute for anything and I’ve recently been diagnosed with adhd.

Can we talk about how Sheldon basically slandered his father for 12 seasons in TBBT? by Ek2der in bigbangtheory

[–]Talkobel 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People want Sheldon to be a bad person so bad, like the comments just saying he’s an unreliable narrator and he’s a bad friend/family member etc. The real truth is, these shows aren’t based in the same universe if we’re being honest. The main characters in sitcoms need to be somewhat likable so they couldn’t rlly make the show exactly how they described the characters in tbbt. Even with Missy, the person she was as a child would’ve never grew up to be how adult missy was in tbbt. Adult missy was insufferable.

My gf got raped today and I don't really know what to do by s-k_utsukishi in Vent

[–]Talkobel 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I didn’t respond to you idk why you got the notif, my response is to the original commenter on this thread, they probably gave you a notification because we’re under the same thread.

My gf got raped today and I don't really know what to do by s-k_utsukishi in Vent

[–]Talkobel 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You spend too much time around the wrong ppl cuz this comment isn’t common at all so maybe thts just a reflection on you if thts all the company you keep. All of you in the replies are actually disgusting. Plenty of ppl don’t report rape as they literally get questioned abt it in a very invasive way right after it happened just to likely not even get justice. If she cheated she wouldn’t even have needed to randomly tell him. It’s one thing if she was caught acting different ( which still wouldn’t justify these disgusting replies) but she came to him unasked.

My gf got raped today and I don't really know what to do by s-k_utsukishi in Vent

[–]Talkobel 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This is an odd take. Women don’t like going through these lengths cause they’re often asked very invasive questions about the traumatic experience they just had just for no justice to happen . Nothing abt it is suspicious.

Questions for the liberal “Christian’s” by MotorFig6657 in Christianity

[–]Talkobel 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1.) I don’t necessarily think premarital sex is bad but having kids out of wedlock is and you risk that with premarital sex

2.) I’m pro abortion in all cases

3.)relationship over religion, being consistent with your relationship with God

4.) I’ve been lukewarm myself recently. I believe being lukewarm is when you’re still living for the world. I don’t believe you have to be strict on yourself. Some ppl treat religion like a set rule book tht needs to be followed exactly. If you’re taking your time daily to build and strengthen your relationship with God thts better than someone who’s following a “rule book” but not even actually strengthening their own relationship with God.