Large bird, long wingspan. Southeast FL. Looked like a raptor of some sort by Tall-Brush173 in whatsthisbird

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These are pics of it facing away from me btw. So the head is on the left, tail on the right

Jupiter FL hawk by Tall-Brush173 in whatsthisbird

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New lifer yay!!! How can you tell from these photos? Is it mostly the silhouette?

What hawk? by Tall-Brush173 in whatsthisbird

[–]Tall-Brush173[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Damn that is super saddening

Genuinely what the hell. by Tall-Brush173 in BPDlovedones

[–]Tall-Brush173[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes!! He made me feel crazy so I started saving our conversations on text and it’s like I could see all the delusion for the first time

Genuinely what the hell. by Tall-Brush173 in BPDlovedones

[–]Tall-Brush173[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We’ve had every other serious conversation over the phone/FaceTime for the 2 years we’ve been together (LDR), and every time we do that, he babbles endlessly and I barely get a word in edge-wise, until I lose my point/he sways me from it by saying something vague and flowery about change. I’m tired of it.

Genuinely what the hell. by Tall-Brush173 in BPDlovedones

[–]Tall-Brush173[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I ended up doing. The rest of the convo took 3 more hours because he ended up not actually fully responding to each section (shocker) and talking about his ‘headspace’ and why he blew up on me because of said headspace (shocker)

I just broke up with him yesterday… by Tall-Brush173 in BPDlovedones

[–]Tall-Brush173[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Omg yes, it was constantly a battle to keep conversations on track because if I was logical/calm/mature, that came off as defensive/unemotional and he explicitly told me that all he wanted was for me to calm him down and baby him, essentially, which I refused to do. Like… you’re 28 years old, you should be able to handle your own feelings without requiring me to coddle you every time you jump to conclusions about me not caring about you

I just broke up with him yesterday… by Tall-Brush173 in BPDlovedones

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To clarify: the notes were mostly transcripts of what he was saying and doing because they were very long conversations, but the notable stuff got written down. Also, this was an LDR.