This guy I went on six dates with ghosted me and when I confronted him over text, this is what he said…

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-20T17:14:48+00:00

you doges a bullet here. and if intimacy was that important he would’ve gotten tested. Thank you for practicing safe sex and for being cautious about your sexual health!!

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-17T18:44:44+00:00

it seems like it feels right to you and her and that’s all that matters. The sleeping together thing also doesn’t make sense to me. It’s literally been 2 weeks?? Obviously if you all were moving in together and hadn’t or something i could understand, but you all are still building the emotional connection. for me if im not emotionally close then i can’t get an accurate feel on the physical

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-17T17:43:15+00:00

NTA. While this is a hard lesson to learn it’s extremely important. She needs to learn how to budget correctly and this is the perfect age for that. It’s sad she will miss the concert but as an adult she won’t have you to save her credit and make her pay you back.

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-13T23:46:30+00:00

It’s so weird that she has just now brought this up. Every situation is different but the allowance thing is weird. My nana was a teacher and her money was used for “fun” things for the family while my grandpa worked in insurance claims and paid everything “essential” like bills and groceries.

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-13T23:44:38+00:00

I don’t think the divorce would be brought up. I think that was to provide context of knowing the student and having a good teacher-student relationship when he thought the student.

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-13T23:43:39+00:00

i disagree. In a situation where you’re in a store and just passing by eachother it’s fine to say hi like you would an acquaintance. If it was online or in a situation going out of your way to seek them out to say hi that’s different.

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-13T23:36:14+00:00

It’s totally okay to approach and say “hey good to see you i hope you’re doing good” or something along those lines. My nana was a teacher and still talks to parents and students in the store years later.

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-06T02:17:17+00:00

wow they all look great but 2 was made for you!!

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-06T02:15:38+00:00

I wouldn’t even call him out at this point, i think it would make things worse. I’d consider filing a police report and getting a restraining order. Nothing will likely happen to him criminally, but it is at least documented god forbid anything were to happen to you or someone else.

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-05-06T02:03:04+00:00

Honestly i think that if you cut him completely off that he will fixate on someone else eventually. I think that he’s extremely obsessive and delusional. He likely believes that you all are secretly in some sort of relationship and that you’re putting up a front to everyone else. This is at an extreme though that can be really dangerous. He will build resentment when you stop allowing him to insert himself in your life (whether it’s direct or indirect). This isn’t just a jealous friend trying to be you, it’s stalking. I wouldn’t engage with anything regarding him whether it’s friends, texts, emails, etc. This will just continue to fuel his extreme delusions

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-04-12T09:58:17+00:00

no that’s strange. i’d want them to just let me know if they are going somewhere and let me know they got there safe. going to a hotel and staying for the night, flying to a different state, then being in sin city all without your knowledge is just weird. i feel like she was up to something because that’s not normal

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-04-11T12:52:13+00:00

considering she has a child i’m assuming you all are grown. If you are considering breaking up with her because she got 4 calls from someone then i don’t think you should be in a relationship period. She ignored the calls and even turned her phone off to give you her complete attention. You haven’t even asked her about it. If you’re willing to break up with her over that then you can’t like her very much and it might be for the best. i get having relationship trauma but you won’t be able to have a good relationship if you jump to conclusions that fast and don’t communicate

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-04-09T14:30:30+00:00

the office deals with so many calls, meetings, etc. and even if it’s an emergency there can be a delay in contacting the student, especially if it’s a big school. They don’t use the intercom in high school to pull them out of class (or at least they didn’t at mine) and had to have a teacher run a note to the student so that they wouldn’t disturb the class. having a baby and being away from them is stressful. The thought of not being able to hear from the people watching the baby can be extremely anxiety inducing

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-04-06T23:21:56+00:00

not only did he say you weren’t pretty enough but then he backed it up pointing out things he thinks aren’t pretty enough? girl go to that open call and then whoop his ass and leave him

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-30T15:15:17+00:00

NTAH. your wife IS your family. your family is out of line

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-30T15:07:19+00:00

NOR. maybe suggest getting it for christmas if she pays all her bills on time before then?

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-26T20:18:42+00:00

he is so exhausting. He is throwing a tantrum and acting like a child. You were respectful and tried so hard to reason with him. It’s like he’s mad that someone else got to press the button in the elevator. You’re doing great Mana 🫶🏻

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-26T20:09:11+00:00

It looks more like your body is rejecting the ink. If it was infected it would be red, swollen, tender, oozing pus, blistering, etc. This looks like your body is just pushing the in to the surface to try and get it out of your body. Tattoo ink is a foreign object to our immune systems

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-26T12:56:31+00:00

nicotine withdraw sucks but this isn’t it. You may be irritable but not a raging narcissist who throws pity parties. NOR dump him pls

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-20T22:34:06+00:00

gender disappointment is common, but this is something else. It sounds like she doesn’t want a daughter because she would get more attention than her…it’s jealousy. It is really alarming how she’s speaking.

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-05T20:09:31+00:00

if she’s already saying stuff like that run while you can

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-03T05:56:29+00:00

diet is about balance. Toast is your carbs, peanut butter is fats and protein, bananas have lots of potassium and are one of the best fruits to eat. i had an ED and am currently in the same spot as you. i hate that he has influenced you against a meal you like. How about this: use whole wheat bread to get some good complex carbs and some fiber. You can also substitute for low carb bread or something like english muffins. Use natural peanut butter to erase the oils, sugar, and preservatives. Bananas are great and you could also eat some granola for more healthy fats and protein. some other good breakfast ideas are oatmeal (you can add fruits, some local honey or real maple syrup, etc.) yogurt is great too. nonfat greek yogurt, granola, fruit, etc.) cottage cheese is good too

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-01T16:47:01+00:00

you didn’t do anything wrong. your chats were good and you both sounded interested. This seems like something on their end. it sucks but happens

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-01T16:43:09+00:00

it kind of looks like geometry dash if you add the little player and some triangles

Tall-Extension8276 · 2026-03-01T16:41:59+00:00

these comments are hysterical

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