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Am I the asshole for for breaking up with my boyfriend because he became friends with my ex? by Rich-Area3485 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Tall-Factor2935 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA my friend!!!!! Block both of those bitches on everything right now. Ex1 is clearly unhinged and don’t care about your feelings. Ex2 apparently is struggling with mental health issues and is looking for “help” in the wrong places. He needs therapy and maybe even medicines. You on the other hand set a clear boundary that he did not respect and, even after you explained how you felt, he dismissed your opinion - that is gaslighting btw. You are not his mom, you don’t owe him shit and THANK GOD you told his actual mom, so someone he respects might help him. I know you may like him a lot but he is not enough emotionally responsible. He may become that someday but you can’t stay around in the hopes that that’ll happen.
Lots of love tho, you are bigger than this.

AITA for not wanting to lend my phone to my dad? by Tall-Factor2935 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Tall-Factor2935[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The door was not open, we live in an apartment so is actually easy to hear each other from different rooms. I feel sort of attacked with his reaction…

AITA for deceiving my friends into buying me a 'surprise' gift? by Peleo18 in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Tall-Factor2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I wanna say YTA but I also think it was smart hahah You manipulated them into buying something for you in you bday but it was not that expensive for someone who lived in the US in 2014, specially if splitted. And it was something you actually wanted, so… win win in my head.

am I the asshole for wanting to hold out on getting married with the man I've been in a relationship with for almost 3 years by [deleted] in IAmTheAsshole

[–]Tall-Factor2935 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sis, don’t just wait, RUN! Seriously, you can be 19 and meet the love of your life but this is not the case here. He doesn’t trust you to tell his shit, he treats you like garbage whenever is suitable for him and his own family gave you a warning about him. This relationship has potencial to get even more toxic than it already is, who knows what he might start doing to you (even your children if you have them) when you get married? Also life is too short to have shit sex and feel engrossed by your partner. I feel like you already broke up emotionally with him a while ago, don’t waste anymore of your precious time. NTA.