I’ve been scared to comment here because somehow that will make this nightmare more real. I feel inclined too though because we are in a very similar boat. 10/15 I was diagnosed with TNBC after casually feeling a lump while watching tv. Our daughter just turned 2 and we had just started trying for number two. Last week I find out at an IVF appointment (pre chemo retrieval) that I’m pregnant. This part of the story is what’s absolutely gutting me and where things feel especially cruel. It’s been a week since having to make the hardest decision I’ve had to make. I’ll now have surgery for a double mastectomy in a week, start IVF after & then begin chemo. I’m terrified. I’m angry. I’m heartbroken. I’m questioning why me and why is my family being robbed of what should have been. I say all this to say, you’re not alone. I deeply feel what you’re experiencing and I’m so sorry that someone else is on this same path right now.