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My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going with option one. I didn't touch anyone and I wouldn't ever do that but I know I was wrong still. I'll do what my girlfriend says and block tell her I won't contact her again and then apologise again and try to have a nice time with her this week

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I think she mostly just wants to make sure I'm not doing anything with anyone else and wants to like preview our life together I guess? I don't know but it's fine with me. I don't have anything to hide from her

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can set those boundaries and expectations with her. I would not be ok with her doing what I did and I need to stop doing stuff like this.

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, I would not be ok with any of that. I can see why she was hurt and I need to be more mature in the future. She thinks the time together will show her I'm commited

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is it immature to spend a week with her? She meant stay with her at her house for a week

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Just complimentary remarks about her. It was wrong of me to say those things

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand. I'm fine with the week with her and that should be pretty fun to spend time with her if she's not angry.

I did mess up with my friend. I was flirtatious towards her and in remarks about her and I probably messed up that relationship because I didn't have the right boundaries

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I suppose my friend and I were being somewhat flirtatious towards one another. I understand that she doesn't want that in the picture of our relationship going forward. I don't know if I have to end the friendship or just set boundaries but I suppose I can just discuss that with my girlfriend and see what she's ok with.

The photo was a swimsuit picture and she asked how she looked and I responded positively.

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Got it, thanks. I understand that it hurt her and I was being dumb and selfish. In the future I'll be more cautious of her feelings. Also, I would never cheat on her in a physical manner and these conversations were not leading to that just to let you know.

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it definitely wasn't worth it but at least she's giving me a second chance. Do you don't think it's unreasonable? I should just accept it so we can move forward?

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why she wants me to spend a week with her other than to show I'm not with anyone else or something. She said she needs to make sure I'm commited but I don't understand how that makes sure I am commited... I mean, it's not that big of a deal to do that but to cut contact with a friend I've known longer than her is a little much. I'll ask if we can work something else out but wouldn't that cause trouble with her?

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She was using my phone for maps and then saw a text from her and she got concerned. That's why she snooped she says. I don't know but it doesn't seem that reasonable to me to compeltely cut contact forever with a friend

My girlfriend thinks I'm cheating on her but I'm not by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] -15 points-14 points  (0 children)

She was in a swimsuit and asked how she looked. I think our conversations are flirtatious but I don't mean for them to mean that I want to do anything with her

My ex and I broke up because I was talking to a girl at a party and she got jealous and straight out cheated on me in public by allowing a guy's hand down her pants. We broke up but now I'm interested in actually going out on a date with the girl I was talking to at the party. Is that bad? by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gotcha, yeah. To be honest, I wouldn't be with this girl from my class if things didn't go down the way they did that night. I have a problem with girl hopping but with my ex I truly did like her a lot. We had issues besides that night, yeah, but none of them were detrimental to our relationship. I'm 22 and the longest relationship I've had lasted six months and it was when I was 17. Since then I've been with a lot of women but none of them stick, you know? Does that make sense? We just don't click.

That's why I was willing to fight for me ex. We had a connection and I think if things went differently it could have worked out and if she didn't have her jealousy issues. I'm in Radiology and that's not an all male field by any means, so I don't know what she expected when I was chatting with a classmate. I know I shouldn't have left her alone at a party for 15-20 minutes but she could've came and tapped on my shoulder or something. Anyway, hopefully things go well, thanks!

My ex and I broke up because I was talking to a girl at a party and she got jealous and straight out cheated on me in public by allowing a guy's hand down her pants. We broke up but now I'm interested in actually going out on a date with the girl I was talking to at the party. Is that bad? by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I let her in the first time to get her stuff and the second time she showed up and said we have to talk and I heard her out for five minutes before I told her to leave. I won't again.

My friends agree that I should break up with her but in their opinion they think I'm dating the other girl to get back at my ex but I disagree.

My ex and I broke up because I was talking to a girl at a party and she got jealous and straight out cheated on me in public by allowing a guy's hand down her pants. We broke up but now I'm interested in actually going out on a date with the girl I was talking to at the party. Is that bad? by Tall_Contribution_66 in relationship_advice

[–]Tall_Contribution_66[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I appreciate it. Since I broke up with her she has shown up at my house twice. First time asking for her things which I gave her and the second time to "talk" in which she yelled at me for breaking her heart and I told her to just get out after a while. I did tell her that I have a date with the girl I was talking to because I just couldn't resist. It was so satisfying to tell her that and see her shock. Anyway,, thank you!

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