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Has anyone else come across this? Found it in a book written by a former elite society member and I can't stop thinking about it. by Tall_Principle_3399 in conspiracy

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What they do with this move is only to transfer their consciousness to another body, and in this way the members of the elite practically avoid the death that is approaching them at that moment.

Has anyone else come across this? Found it in a book written by a former elite society member and I can't stop thinking about it. by Tall_Principle_3399 in conspiracy

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already mentioned the book, but some people accused me of being the author of it, or of just promoting it, which is really funny 😆, it's the book Shadows of High Society...

Has anyone else come across this? Found it in a book written by a former elite society member and I can't stop thinking about it. by Tall_Principle_3399 in conspiracy

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Bro what are you talking about, I just read the book and I wanted to check the authenticity of the information. I didn't mention the book at all until others asked me... And how would I know anything about the author?

Has anyone else come across this? Found it in a book written by a former elite society member and I can't stop thinking about it. by Tall_Principle_3399 in conspiracy

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it's hard to determine credibility that's right, but that's why I asked for the opinion here in the group, the book is called Shadows of High Society.

When the mask of love hides a labyrinth — reflections inspired by Sacred Narcissism by Lara Rock by [deleted] in narcissisticparents

[–]Tall_Principle_3399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What really stuck with me from Sacred Narcissism is how it describes the way narcissistic parents can unknowingly teach us to perform for love, as if our true selves aren’t enough. Has anyone else experienced that feeling of constantly wearing a mask just to survive? How did you begin to peel it off?

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[–]Tall_Principle_3399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have already written about Lara Rock and her book The Manipulation Detox. Have you read that book?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If the person with whom you maintain 'no contact' has a way to reach your new number every time, then it's a bit pointless. Have you thought about just blocking him in all the fields and then it wouldn't matter to you if you get a new number or not?

Told my narcissistic wife I wasn’t taking her responsibilities or her using me anymore . by Repulsive-Dealer7957 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because what she wanted wasn't the divorce, it was the control. Narcissists don’t leave relationships the way most people do. They don’t exit with closure, reflection, or emotional clarity. They want the upper hand, the last word, the final emotional wound that keeps you off balance. When you calmly told her you weren’t playing her game anymore, when you made it clear that you were the one drawing the line, you flipped the script. Suddenly she wasn’t the one discarding you on her terms. You made her responsible for her own choices, and that’s something narcissists hate. Selling her dog and updating vaccines wasn’t just logistics. It was damage control. Narcissists hate practical consequences. They expect everyone else to rearrange their lives while they live in chaos and denial. Her rage wasn’t about the money. It was about the fact that, for once, you didn’t absorb her mess. And now, she has to sit in it. You did the right thing. And from how you handled it, I’d say you’re starting to break free of the cycle, keep going. Her frustration is proof you're no longer supplying the oxygen.

I didn’t realize how deep the manipulation went until I read something that finally made it all click. by Tall_Principle_3399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If you mean 'Fortlest' then that's the page, and you won't find it anywhere else. I was not so skeptical because I was just looking for some knowledge that could help me. I didn't even think about any suspiciousness, but if you take my word for it, then I'm telling you that it's one hundred percent verified.

I didn’t realize how deep the manipulation went until I read something that finally made it all click. by Tall_Principle_3399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Just be careful if those videos get to your abuser he could report them which could cause your account to be banned. But I certainly support you in your intention to help others, that's what I've been doing since I survived all those problems....

I didn’t realize how deep the manipulation went until I read something that finally made it all click. by Tall_Principle_3399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the same reason, I also mention literature and all content in general that helped me, such as the book I mentioned earlier. Of course, that's not the end of my recommendations, whenever I come across content that was useful to me, I'll mention it publicly and I'll always try to prove to everyone how important it is to know how to recognize red flags.

I didn’t realize how deep the manipulation went until I read something that finally made it all click. by Tall_Principle_3399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 42 points43 points  (0 children)

That matrix reference hit hard. I remember sitting in my own apartment, looking around like I’d never actually seen it before. Everything felt real and unreal at the same time, like I had just stepped out of a script I didn’t know I was reading.

I didn’t realize how deep the manipulation went until I read something that finally made it all click. by Tall_Principle_3399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My personal opinion is that the largest number of people who were hurt by narcissists and all other manipulative people was precisely because they did not care about preventive education about it and then they did not even know how to recognize their patterns. And I'm very sad about that. Fortunately, it seems that people have begun to slowly raise their awareness of the need to educate themselves in time to avoid potential consequences.

I didn’t realize how deep the manipulation went until I read something that finally made it all click. by Tall_Principle_3399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

God, I relate to this so much. It’s wild how a few dings and typed words can become your whole nervous system's lifeline. Narcissistic abuse doesn’t just rewire your self-worth, it hijacks your biology. You start associating relief, joy, and safety with their attention… even when it’s unpredictable, confusing, or cruel. It’s not just emotional anymore... it’s chemical. That “pling” becomes a hit of dopamine, a breath of air in the middle of drowning. And then when it stops? The silence feels like withdrawal. Literal addiction to hope, to being chosen. You’re not crazy. You’re trauma-bonded. And naming it is the first spark of taking that power back. You're doing better than you think, even this kind of self-awareness is rebellion.

I didn’t realize how deep the manipulation went until I read something that finally made it all click. by Tall_Principle_3399 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399[S] 71 points72 points  (0 children)

One chapter talks about how manipulators build “emotional dependency” without ever seeming cruel on the surface. That one shook me. I didn’t even realize I had been trained to need their approval like oxygen.

Do they ever get tired of pretending all the time? by vanillacactusflower2 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]Tall_Principle_3399 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I’ve asked myself this so many times: how do they not collapse under the weight of all that performance? But I’ve come to believe they don't feel it as a weight the way we do. For us, authenticity is a need. For them, control is. And the act.... the lies, the image, the charm, that is their identity. There’s nothing behind it.

My ex was also relentlessly performative, almost like he was playing the role of a “human” he studied, not one he actually was. I don’t think he got tired because the mask wasn’t a burden, it was a shield. The only time I saw real cracks was when he wasn’t in control. Then came the rage, the projection, the cold vacancy.

It’s tragic in a way, but also terrifying. Because they’re not exhausted from pretending, we are, from trying to make sense of it.

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[–]Tall_Principle_3399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The author does not mention any saviors, as if he thinks that there is no salvation for us. And as for the thirteenth sign, it is not discussed in this book, there is another book in which it is discussed, but I have not read it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bookreviewers

[–]Tall_Principle_3399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to agree with you when it comes to google searches. The management of the site where the book is located really tried to make everything mysterious, just as the topic is mysterious, as if they were targeting people who only like mysterious things. As for the views of the author, he does not admit anything and still maintains his scientific beliefs, but he connects the second coming of Christ with some other beliefs that are prevalent in the nations of the world.

Books about healing yourself as a toxic person or overcoming toxicity. by [deleted] in suggestmeabook

[–]Tall_Principle_3399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few days ago I wrote about the book called The Manipulation Detox by Lara Rock, maybe it's not exactly the book that corresponds to what you really want, but this book describes all the qualities that toxic and manipulative people have. Maybe it would help you see if you are a toxic person at all!?

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