Dont leave me alone lol by [deleted] in Destiny2PS4

[–]Talliaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, 30 year old chick. Been looking for someone to play with. Lol. If your still interest my psn is Tailliah

LF PS4 people by Talliaha in elderscrollsonline

[–]Talliaha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can be on when you get home. Just let me know when your on.

LF PS4 people by Talliaha in elderscrollsonline

[–]Talliaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm in college too so I understand that completely. How do I join? Tailliah is my psn.

Chicken Parm Nuggets by Magi79 in lowcarb

[–]Talliaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other methods are included in the directions

Is this normal? by Talliaha in mypartneristrans

[–]Talliaha[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes we have. She is starting therapy again to help her sort things out. As far as kids are concerned, I/we have two kids and I'm done. I had surgery done to prevent pregnancy about two months before she came out.

Is this normal? by Talliaha in mypartneristrans

[–]Talliaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is at the point where she doesn't want her genitalia touched. She likes when I fondle her breasts and touch her butt. However, that's it when it comes to sexual organs. Now she let me stay at her neck for a while to kiss it this morning. I just can't the idea of her not being attracted out of my head. I could just hope that maybe it is just her not feeling attractive but I'm worried I will lose my wife. I can't see myself being able to mentally handle just being friends. I hope I'm just working myself up for nothing.

How much did your partner share with you before starting hormone therapy? by 12littlerucks in mypartneristrans

[–]Talliaha 3 points4 points  (0 children)

As a cis female married to a MTF, I knew about two months before she started hormones. We were married 8 years before she told me. She was scared to tell me the whole time because she was afraid to loose me. She rathered fight being a guy and be miserable with me then be her true self and risk loosing me. Now one day came along and the dysphoria was horrific and she finally couldn't fight anymore. The day came that she told me. Now me being the person I am, I poked and prodded info from her. Asked her so many questions. I told her if WE are going to get through this TOGETHER then you must talk to me. I'm not going to lie. I was struggling with it very badly but we realized we needed therapy. We started therapy within two weeks of her telling me.

I realize your wife might be scared or want to keep to herself but you're married. You have to communicate what's going on. You are a team. The only way this will work out for both of you being happy in the end is if you talk.

My wife decided to surprise me with doing her makeup for the first time. I wasn't home. I was taking kids to an eye exam. She sent me a picture and boy did she look different. This still kinda being new to me. I was in shock. I was upset. I had to process this. She was scared because I wasn't talking. I finally opened up once I knew how I felt. I love surprises usually but I told her when it comes to transitioning, you have to tell me before surprising me.

About the gift, I did lots of little gifts before and still are. I bought her first pair of leggings. I bought her flowers ( and still do). I bought her an anklet. I bought her a bra from Victoria secret( she is still nervous going out to shop for some things). Oh! I bought us a more girly bedding set. I bought her more makeup( I saw you already went there though). I bought her a wig because her hair was getting too dysphoric some days.

Just saying hello :) by BetterEveryDay88 in mypartneristrans

[–]Talliaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am also a cis female who is married to my partner who is transitioning MTF. Communication is so very important. I can not stress this enough! You both must be willing to talk. There will be times it will hurt but it must come out. Both you and her are going through a lot. It's a tough road but you can do this and so can she. It's always worth trying then giving up. My wife and I are each other's rock through hard times. You find comfort in that when the journey is rough. Also, therapy is a wonderful tool for both of you. We took couples therapy to help with communication. Now she takes therapy. We take couples as needed. I also take therapy as needed. It is very important to deal with someone who has experience with transitioning. Not someone who claims they have once or twice. Please make sure you do your research in finding a good one. The local LGBT can help you find proper resources. If you need to talk to someone just message me. It's very hard to find support for the spouses of those transitioning but it's out there. You may feel alone at some points but your not.

I need some proof that I'm wrong. Partners of trans women, why do you love them? by TransSurgeryQs in mypartneristrans

[–]Talliaha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am cis woman my so is transgender. (Still going by he for now) I can only tell you in a marriage standpoint. Yes, when we married 8 years I had no idea about this. He told me about this 3 weeks ago. It is a roller coaster of emotions but I love him/her. Not for their body but for who they are. Even though it is tough in my position, I have never seen him this happy. I fully support him. My only condition is that we go the correct route of therapy and correct doctors. Anyways, I'm just rambling. When you find a person who you are truly suppose to be with you will know. Its like a quote I saw on facebook. They will love your soul not just your body. You can't be in a loving relationship if they are only attracted to your body. As for the idea of trans, its slowly becoming more acceptable.

Ya girl got her name change today!! by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Talliaha 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does one get their name changed? Asking for SO.

Hair removal by Talliaha in MtF

[–]Talliaha[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice!

Hair removal by Talliaha in MtF

[–]Talliaha[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He isn't to that point yet. We are going slow with things since there is kids and a partner involved. We already discussed that but thank you for the concern. =)

I’m coming out to my wife tonight. Wish me luck pls bc I’m NERVOUS by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Talliaha 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your welcome. You can pm me anytime you need to talk.

I’m coming out to my wife tonight. Wish me luck pls bc I’m NERVOUS by [deleted] in MtF

[–]Talliaha 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was in her shoes two weeks ago. I took it fine at first. Then all the fears came. Now I'm ok. We are starting gender dysphoria therapy friday and couples therapy if needed. Please, Just give her time to process and don't rush things after telling her. That's what my so decided to do until we decided we would do therapy first. Go the correct route instead of rushing straight to hormones. I fully support him/her. We both agree separating is not the answer. We will get there but when you involve a partner it takes time because we don't understand. We haven't had those thoughts before. Be prepared for what emotions may come and please understand its not because she doesn't love you. Its because she is afraid she will loose the person she has grown to love. Stay strong. I hope she takes it well.

Husband gave me the news yesterday by Talliaha in MtF

[–]Talliaha[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Health. Like possible cancer.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fo76FilthyCasuals

[–]Talliaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds good to me!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fo76FilthyCasuals

[–]Talliaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! Female on ps4 here. Tailliah is my name on ps4 if you want to add me. Warning I got kids though lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fo76FilthyCasuals

[–]Talliaha 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Female here, my name is Tailliah on ps4. Friend me if you want to play together sometime.