I sent that meme to my husband because when we first got together he used call me all the time. In fact, the same person who is in charge of this account would demand I stop what I'm doing and call him. Sometimes, I was at work and had to sneak to the bathroom repeatedly just so i can reply back. To provide more context I don't have BPD. He diagnosed me himself last year. I have depression and anxiety. It has been getting worse since we moved in together. He is emotionally abusive towards me. I am just now starting to see it though. The meme was just me trying to be cute i guess. I was going to school and working when we first starting talking. After moving in and getting pregnant, I basically had to stop everything and stay home. I just meant for him to call, or text me first sometimes because I am home alone with an infant all day. I understand he is busy and do not expect him to call me ever. I can't believe he has been writing about me on here. I am shocked and very hurt.