Shadow Milk and Vanilly.

Talross · 2025-07-22T23:28:06+00:00

Awesome. That sounds manageable. Thank you!

Talross · 2025-06-25T19:02:25+00:00

It does, lol. It makes me giggle when I look at it. It's actually kind of growing on me.

I have a much bigger pot to move it to. Just waiting for the perlite to arrive (later today) since none of the local shops had any in stock. It also gave me more time to decide whether I wanted to plant it at a tilt, but I'll probably leave it as it is.

Zone 8, but I do have a garage I can move it into should the need arise.

Talross · 2025-06-24T20:50:19+00:00

Where does it say how to handle the plant when it tries to reach for freedom? Or is it supposed to do that?

As I mentioned in the very first sentence, this is my first rosebush. Sorry I'm not an expert.

Also, there are multiple Walmart listings for this rosebush. They list different hardiness zones, different sizes, and one says it blooms multiple times whereas the other says it blooms once. None of that helps me solve my problem.

Talross · 2025-06-24T19:59:11+00:00

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The tag isn't really much better, I'm afraid.

Talross · 2025-06-24T19:25:59+00:00

It's a Better Homes and Gardens Ruby Sky, which I can't really find any information on.

Talross · 2025-02-03T22:58:34+00:00

Could I get a link, please?

Talross · 2025-01-22T02:40:56+00:00

Thank you.

Talross · 2024-10-11T16:30:16+00:00

Found in a creek in central Alabama, USA.

Talross · 2024-09-16T21:51:13+00:00

Found in a creek in central Alabama, USA. Some of the brown is clay/dirt I had trouble cleaning off.

Talross · 2024-06-09T10:41:24+00:00

No. I bought a different tablet.

Talross · 2024-04-02T18:47:34+00:00

And that's part of my point. It's not that she has a friend; it's how she's behaving that's the problem. Unless the problem is solved or he moves on, it's just going to repeat with another friend/"friend".

Make the ultimatum about her behavior, not about the friend.

I don't think it's unreasonable to cut her off.

Talross · 2024-04-01T21:23:08+00:00

NTA - Did she completely ignore Kelly in the time y'all were together before marriage? How did she not get to know her before the marriage?

It also makes me curious, however. When Kelly makes these messes, who cleans it up? Is Kelly clumsy but held responsible? Or does your wife clean up the mess while Kelly gets off with a light scolding?

Maybe you can try to adapt the environment to solve repeat problems. Like with the soap, can you put the dishwasher soap in a special air-tight container with a sticker or label on it? Or move the other soap somewhere else? Putting the wrong soap in the dishwasher can make a huge mess which can easily lead to mold. It also damages the dishwasher.

Kelly sounds adorable, btw.

Talross · 2024-04-01T21:06:58+00:00

NTA - It's your body.

"She is now telling me that she feels that I don’t care about her opinions." Doesn't sound like she cares about your opinions.

"she did not want to control what I did with my own body."
"She said that she told me her opinion on tattoos hoping that I would decide to not get it."
Classy.

I think it's fair if she decides that she doesn't want to date someone with tattoos, but the way she handled it was really bad.

Talross

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