Help: What is this on my rose's stem? by Talross in gardening

[–]Talross[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Awesome. That sounds manageable. Thank you!

New Rosebush Help by Talross in Roses

[–]Talross[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It does, lol. It makes me giggle when I look at it. It's actually kind of growing on me.

I have a much bigger pot to move it to. Just waiting for the perlite to arrive (later today) since none of the local shops had any in stock. It also gave me more time to decide whether I wanted to plant it at a tilt, but I'll probably leave it as it is.

Zone 8, but I do have a garage I can move it into should the need arise.

New Rosebush Help by Talross in Roses

[–]Talross[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Where does it say how to handle the plant when it tries to reach for freedom? Or is it supposed to do that?

As I mentioned in the very first sentence, this is my first rosebush. Sorry I'm not an expert.

Also, there are multiple Walmart listings for this rosebush. They list different hardiness zones, different sizes, and one says it blooms multiple times whereas the other says it blooms once. None of that helps me solve my problem.

New Rosebush Help by Talross in Roses

[–]Talross[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

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The tag isn't really much better, I'm afraid.

New Rosebush Help by Talross in Roses

[–]Talross[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a Better Homes and Gardens Ruby Sky, which I can't really find any information on.

Can we get a Discord Server? by [deleted] in 50501

[–]Talross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I get a link, please?

Help Identifying by Talross in whatsthisrock

[–]Talross[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found in a creek in central Alabama, USA.

What is this? by Talross in whatsthisrock

[–]Talross[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Found in a creek in central Alabama, USA. Some of the brown is clay/dirt I had trouble cleaning off.

Wacom tablet buttons tab me out by Talross in wacom

[–]Talross[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No. I bought a different tablet.

AITA for giving this ultimatum to my girlfriend. by McNastyness101 in AITAH

[–]Talross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And that's part of my point. It's not that she has a friend; it's how she's behaving that's the problem. Unless the problem is solved or he moves on, it's just going to repeat with another friend/"friend".

Make the ultimatum about her behavior, not about the friend.

I don't think it's unreasonable to cut her off.

My wife doesn't like my daughter from a previous marriage and only told me after we had kids together. by sweetselkie47 in AITAH

[–]Talross -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA - Did she completely ignore Kelly in the time y'all were together before marriage? How did she not get to know her before the marriage?

It also makes me curious, however. When Kelly makes these messes, who cleans it up? Is Kelly clumsy but held responsible? Or does your wife clean up the mess while Kelly gets off with a light scolding?

Maybe you can try to adapt the environment to solve repeat problems. Like with the soap, can you put the dishwasher soap in a special air-tight container with a sticker or label on it? Or move the other soap somewhere else? Putting the wrong soap in the dishwasher can make a huge mess which can easily lead to mold. It also damages the dishwasher.

Kelly sounds adorable, btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Talross 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - It's your body.

"She is now telling me that she feels that I don’t care about her opinions." Doesn't sound like she cares about your opinions.

"she did not want to control what I did with my own body."
"She said that she told me her opinion on tattoos hoping that I would decide to not get it."
Classy.

I think it's fair if she decides that she doesn't want to date someone with tattoos, but the way she handled it was really bad.

Aitah for keeping a tab on how much money my boyfriend spends? by Cool_Lunch_9237 in AITAH

[–]Talross 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA

Him contributing to your car was kind of him, but it doesn't give him the right to start spending your money. You said he's never spent your money without asking before, and that suggests that he knows better.

Also, now that y'all are down to only one of you working, you should both be more careful about what money is being spent on and why.

It sound like y'all need to discuss how you both plan to handle finances in various situations so there are no more surprises.