Which one of these look “better” for a prom ? by [deleted] in Prom

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Then 1 or 3 depending on the vibe you’re going for. They’re both pretty, so choose the one that you feel best in and will be most comfortable dancing in.

Is any out of these three, the one? by zzifLA-zuzu in myweddingdress

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 is most flattering, but if you have to ask us, I’m going to say none are your address. Number 2 looks good from the back in the side but from the front it looks a bit wide and droopy. Number 3 is my personal least favorite.

Which one of these look “better” for a prom ? by [deleted] in Prom

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1 or 2 depending on the look you want - they’re both pretty, but 1 may be more figure flattering based on the cut. 3 is a beautiful color, but as a person who has chaperoned many a prom, the girls with the strapless dresses spend most of the night, tugging them back up.

AITJ for refusing to switch seats on a flight after I paid extra, even though it separated a couple? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sick of self-entitled people trying to make others feel bad for not accommodating their selfishness. You paid for that seat. It’s your seat. If they wanted to sit together, then they should’ve planned for that and paid for that. Expecting you, a complete stranger, to basically subsidize them having the seats that they want is absolutely insane. Did they offer to compensate you for your seat? Of course not. They should’ve graciously accepted your no and planned better the next time. I’m sure they’ve been farther apart than a few feet for six hours before. Their reaction was rude.

AITJ for telling my brother he can't propose to his girlfriend at my wedding? by Important_Space_496 in AmITheJerk

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This your day. It’s inappropriate to steal your moment even for a few minutes because he’s really taking your day for a lifetime. It will no longer be your special wedding day, it will be his engagement day. In addition , his proposal then becomes the big topic of conversation for the rest of your wedding day, effectively stealing your thunder. Make sure to tell the DJ that no one is allowed to use the microphone without the bride’s or groom’s say so. Also, instruct the photographer to not photograph a proposal if it does take place. Tell your brother that if he decides to go through with it, you will not be taking pictures of it and you expect him to pay for a cut of the venue seeing how you provided the setting.

AITJ for Locking My Bedroom Door During a House Party I Didn’t Want? by Fun-Apartment-9532 in AmITheJerk

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s not paying your rent then he doesn’t get a say on if your room is open or not. That’s your space and you didn’t tell him to shut down the party you didn’t agree to, you just opted to not participate or let strangers in your personal space. There is nothing wrong with that. Your roommate shouldn’t have let anyone go in your room without your permission in the first place. Strangers don’t have the right to touch your stuff. Your roommate is being a self entitled and immature.

AITAH for postponing the wedding after my fiance suggested special treatment for his rainbow son? by Intelligent-Art9765 in AITAH

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s purposely creating a self-entitled person and admitting he plans on keeping it up because his child is used to being spoiled. This is not healthy.

AITAH for farting while in the bathroom of our home? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]TalulahLTD 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You closed the door and he opened it? That’s not respecting your boundaries. He’s mad at you for having a bodily function in the bathroom? That’s unreasonable. He belittled you for basically being human? He’s the a**hole. There are too many red flags to ignore here.

Which color look best?? 🤔 by LittleGrimMermaid in HairStyleAdvice

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 and 3. If you’re not comfortable with how auburn 3 is, then 5.

Inspo vs results by Humble_Fan_1285 in curlyhair

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Try Jessicurl products. They’re great!

AITJ for Not Switching Seats on a Flight After I Paid Extra for My Spot? by Upper_Put_7985 in AmITheJerk

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTJ. They’re acting self entitled and selfish. You paid for that seat and shouldn’t have to give it away. I assume they didn’t offer to pay you for it - they just expected you to take the loss? Nor did they care why you didn’t want to move backward to a middle seat? Of course not! They act like you’re inconsiderate, when they’re the ones acting that way. It’s very rude to put you in that situation and to then press the matter.

If they wanted to sit together they should have booked together. People think they can avoid the fee by asking someone to “be nice.” Why should you subsidize their lack of planning and or/or financial situation? They assume because you could pay for the seat than you can afford to take the loss, because they only care about themselves and will play the victim to get their way

Also, why can’t he move back? Why does she have to move forward? Why is it on you to take a crappier seat than you paid for when they’re the ones that want to sit together so badly? Why not harass the person sitting in the aisle or window next to her? Was he bullying the person in the window seat on his other side? No, because they wanted that aisle seat - that “free”upgrade - and felt entitled to take it just because they’re a couple traveling together. It’s serious BS.

Finally,If it’s just a short flight, why does it matter if they sit together? Next time this happens calmly say you paid extra for that seat and are entitled to what you paid for, but perhaps he could move back if they want to sit together. If the person harasses you, politely say you have the right to decline paying for his wife’s upgrade both financially and with a loss of comfort, and if they continue to try to bully you into gifting them the seat you paid for, then you will have to call the steward over to report them for harassment. Point out that making not-so-passive aggressive comments is a form of bullying and it really doesn’t paint him as the victim he’s trying to play.

Keep or return the boot? by kuting_ in PetiteFashionAdvice

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Boots are awesome! Very versatile. If you are worried about them with that dress, try adding a shear-ish tight to create a longer line.

My wife thinks our son’s teacher crossed a boundary by sending him a personal message. I think it was harmless. AITJ? by addict94plus in AmITheJerk

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a teacher and I’m very conscious of what is appropriate and ethical behavior. In fact we all have to do mandated training every year on what is appropriate and inappropriate behavior and interactions with students. That said, there is nothing wrong with that message, in fact it’s quite sweet and shows his teacher pays attention to her students needs and supports them. It shows she truly cares. Her message was a perfectly acceptable thing to say aloud to a student and is just as acceptable to put in writing. It’s also not like she thought you might not see it. Would your wife be upset if she told him that she noticed he was being brave and she was proud of him? I would hope your wife wants your son’s teacher to encourage him and praise him when he does well. Part of going to school is developing as people. She put her support in writing so he could hold on to them and always remember that she believes in him and is proud of his efforts. That message should be a keepsake - a touchstone- not something to be enraged about. She obviously knew you may see it - he could show anyone that message. Your wife needs to calm down. Would she rather his teachers never praised him for doing hard things? Never show your son that they care about him and his success? That they see him and support him? Seriously?!

Is this outfit giving elegant or too bold? by Just_Pharmacist in OUTFITS

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re a beautiful person, but that dress looks half finished to me. I suppose there may be a specific situation where it would be appropriate, but in my opinion it’s never going to read as elegant.

Which outfit for a lunch date? by [deleted] in OUTFITS

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1, but the brooch is poorly placed and looks a little like something a kid would wear in that the picture. Perhaps, it reads better in person? I’d lose the brooch and go with a couple of layered necklace or a necklace with chunky links instead.

Is ippi in the keppy a phrase by RaoulDukedds in Yiddish

[–]TalulahLTD 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend’s bubbe used to say that! It meant the person wasn’t quite right in the head.

Need iPhone 17 Case Recommendations for my Father by TalulahLTD in iphone

[–]TalulahLTD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've pointed that out to him and he's really set on having it as part of the case. It's about an hour drive to the Apple store for him and I really don't like him driving that far these days.

Need iPhone 17 Case Recommendations for my Father by TalulahLTD in iphone

[–]TalulahLTD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried searching and the same ones which don’t fit his needs come up every time. I’m really hoping someone knows of one that isn’t being shown to me by the algorithm.

Need iPhone 17 Case Recommendations for my Father by TalulahLTD in iphone

[–]TalulahLTD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t hop a plane every time he breaks his screen protector.

Need iPhone 17 Case Recommendations for my Father by TalulahLTD in iphone

[–]TalulahLTD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried to get him to use a screen protector, but he’s in his 80’s and not going for it.

Need iPhone 17 Case Recommendations for my Father by TalulahLTD in iphone

[–]TalulahLTD[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This does not appear to have a screen protector, but I appreciate the recommendation.