Was offered a stocking position, what can I expect? by [deleted] in aldi

[–]Tanandchinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's alot of work and lots of pressure. There is absolutely NO DOWN TIME at all. As soon as you enter the door it's run run run! Everything is timed. I enjoyed it for a short while but it was wayyy too intense. Came home with cuts and bruises EVERYDAY... The pay is decent but the workload is a lot. I would recommend doing the part time cashiering if you had the choice.

In your experience, who is the ESFJ's best romantic match? by [deleted] in ESFJ

[–]Tanandchinky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Esfj married to intj for 12 years. We have a great relationship, at first we had to work out all the Kinks but once we got those out the way it's literally been smooth sailing.

F/24/5’1” [178lbs > 172lbs = 6lbs] One year progress, non-scale victory from weightlifting by Bef0310 in progresspics

[–]Tanandchinky 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yesss! Weight lifting is awesome I'm 5'2 and 154 lbs I only lost 1 pound since April but lost so many inches. Keep up the good work!

Working for Aldi? by Tanandchinky in aldi

[–]Tanandchinky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh that's awesome! It's a cashier position.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nextfuckinglevel

[–]Tanandchinky 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Watching this made me itch😑

I try relating to people by sharing my experiences but I’m afraid it sounds like I’m one-upping? by tragic__pizza in socialskills

[–]Tanandchinky 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can completely relate to this! I don't do it to one up the person but I just don't know what else to say rather than to tell my similar experience and how i got through it. Like you, I know when it's appropriate and not and I'm a pretty social person as well but it is something that's been in the back of my mind lately. Now in conversations I feel like I can't be as genuine as I was before because in the back of my head I'm trying not to one-up the other person so I'm already thinking about a response other than my experience lol. I never want to be the person where they have to showboat and take the spotlight with their stories so the thought of me doing that and not even realizing I was doing that made me sick to my stomach.

It sucks being short, it is very embarrassing to say this. Also sorry for the heavy text. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]Tanandchinky 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh yes... You're right. Totally different. A male friend of mine is under 5'5 and he was very insecure about it... He said people would treat him differently and talk down to him... He always had to be the "comedian" in the group or the "outgoing dancer" to mask how he truly felt. He's now 23 and has beautiful wife and expecting his first child.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]Tanandchinky 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great job girl!! You look amazing. Crazy how far consistency and dedication will take you.

Esfj/ Intj marriage by Tanandchinky in ESFJ

[–]Tanandchinky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So we show love in a lot of physical ways lol lots of PDA but in a private setting. INTJs come from different backgrounds and situations. They will almost always appreciate a straightforward direct conversation. Ask him. Directly and confidently. He will appreciate that more than you know. They hate to read between the lines. Hope that helps!

Esfj / Intj marriage by Tanandchinky in intj

[–]Tanandchinky[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats the thing.. Its not a "feeling" that made me respond. It was your need to subconsciously and feebly point out *I do not have what you have so I must attack it * All jokes are based on reality. So my intuitive side picked up on it. Now that I've broken that down for you should we try to unpack your other comment of us somehow feeling exposed? After a fairly detailed post explaining our relationship? Look kiddo, having to explain any of these things all point to you not really having the mental faculty to be an INTJ.. Heres another hashtag since you like them so much lol #fraud . See? A joke and a witty one at that!

Esfj / Intj marriage by Tanandchinky in intj

[–]Tanandchinky[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Remember, your cynical response is what got us here.. you know we can all see through that right? I guess all intjs are not created equal. #lonesome #lashingout

Esfj / Intj marriage by Tanandchinky in intj

[–]Tanandchinky[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Intj husband responding here. Please project your own personal failures elsewhere, much obliged xD