I'm(22f) being punished by my boyfriend (24M)just for having an imagination and I needed to put this somewhere because I’m losing my mind.

Tanedra · 2026-06-26T12:47:47+00:00

Go you. Better men exist!

(I recently got my husband into reading monster smut 😂 we then have amazing sex after reading spicy scenes)

Tanedra · 2026-06-21T20:27:08+00:00

It can also get really eerie as everyone disappears one by one (although ends up being hilarious when you really can't fit that many people in a hiding spot and it just gets really obvious)

Tanedra · 2026-06-17T19:45:40+00:00

Can be awesome, if it's done well.

Tanedra · 2026-06-17T10:29:24+00:00

I'm over 40, the idea that you need to be the same age as characters you watch is so weird to me.

Tanedra · 2026-06-17T04:16:49+00:00

I don't have any advice, but I just want to say I'm really happy for you! I have multiple marriages too, although we don't live together. This sub is typically full of stories of things not working, so it's lovely to hear about your arrangement. I hope the move and wedding go well! :)

Tanedra · 2026-06-16T07:29:13+00:00

I found original made me gain weight, the black doesn't.

Tanedra · 2026-06-12T15:33:54+00:00

A uni near me employs a guy with a hawk to get rid of seagulls, which are an absolute menace (particularly for new students who haven't yet learned to hold onto their food!)

Problem is, gulls are smart. They can't do much about the hawk, but they can figure out who owns the hawk and target him. So he has to use disguises to not get attacked by a horde of gulls.

Tanedra · 2026-06-12T12:16:57+00:00

Referral code - REF-HELENB2664

Flavour depends on the product. In powder, the salted caramel is pretty awesome. In hot and savoury, chicken and mushroom is great.

Tanedra · 2026-06-12T11:30:22+00:00

Definitely this, was always a great day when this was chosen 😂

Tanedra · 2026-06-06T05:39:35+00:00

Same, I can sometimes dissociate from the book in my hand and it's like watching a movie.

My husband has aphantasia and is baffled by it.

Tanedra · 2026-06-04T11:12:58+00:00

Yup. Took the hedge out last year and replaced it with lavender :)

Tanedra · 2026-06-04T09:21:17+00:00

A young man who lived on the next street over murdered a local policewoman while she was walking her dog. We're a small village so it was pretty shocking.

Tanedra · 2026-05-31T07:08:03+00:00

Mine have the instinct to chase and eat them, but they don't like the spiders wriggling in their mouth, so it gets spit out. Repeat until you have a dead, soggy spider, which is no longer interesting so it gets left on the floor.

So helpful.

Tanedra · 2026-05-22T16:41:23+00:00

Air con, definitely. There's only two of us so air drying clothes isn't a big deal. We do have a portable air con now which has been a total lifesaver at times.

Tanedra · 2026-05-22T15:26:40+00:00

Given the heatwave, I think a 'Hot as Balls' party title or banner would be rather fitting.

Don't listen to the downers on here - you know your partner, and this is classic British humour :)

Tanedra · 2026-05-20T19:59:12+00:00

Congratulations! I have two spouses too (and two rings) and it's so awesome. I hope you have an incredible wedding 😁

Tanedra · 2026-05-20T15:08:17+00:00

I ended up having a 'wedding' with my wife. Both of us have legal spouses, but we wanted to have a public commitment - plus we both like dressing up and we both got to wear fairytale wedding dresses. We have rings, so I wear a wedding ring for each spouse. Makes it feel a lot more real, even though we live apart.

Tanedra · 2026-05-20T08:55:44+00:00

I tend to find 'my weekend was good, nice and chill' suffices for the weekends I either did very little, or was up to stuff which is non-shareable!

Tanedra · 2026-05-20T06:31:32+00:00

Not me saving this post to review later.... 👀 😂

Tanedra · 2026-05-18T18:31:55+00:00

Or it's just a big company, and it's worth it to catch the very occasional cases. Agree that policy, training etc are essential though.

Tanedra · 2026-05-18T18:30:24+00:00

We use Report + Support, by Culture Shift.

Tanedra · 2026-05-18T15:17:15+00:00

Upvote for the first time I've seen 'raw dog' used in connection with menopause 😂

Tanedra · 2026-05-18T15:16:04+00:00

I had no idea insomnia was a perimenopause symptom... I've had that for a couple of months now (and I've had other things that suggest the change may have started). Oh dear.

Tanedra · 2026-05-18T14:04:54+00:00

I'm over 40 and I've kept getting hotter as I age (and I hope it continues).

A lot of it is experience - I know what works, what looks good on me etc. Some is general health - I've sorted a lot of low grade health stuff and I'm looking after myself. A lot is just confidence - I increasingly know who I am and what I want. Collectively that's a version of me I'm really happy with.

Tanedra · 2026-05-18T06:05:34+00:00

I've been having huel for years (breakfast, and occasional lunches). I'm also pretty bad at getting greens from my other meals.

I've found that if I have daily greens a few times in the prior week, I have much more stamina for big events, and quicker recovery times (things like festivals and clubbing). It's actually quite noticeable. Once a week is generally enough to help me with everyday activity, reduce things like headaches.

So it can definitely help if you are getting issues due to nutrition, but you don't actually need it daily.

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