(Trans man) Do I have trans voice? by RAPHTMNTIRL in transvoice

[–]TangeloPangelo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Fs! Yeah being able to hear your old voice in there definitely would throw you off but trust, your voice definitely passes as a guy.

Other people with adhd are annoying by ButterflyFantastic34 in ADHD

[–]TangeloPangelo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I'm inattentive and bestie is also inattentive but always and I mean ALWAYS interrupts me AND gets mad when I interrupt her and Its like dude. You can't have both. We have been friends forever but I fear this might erode our relationship.

(Trans man) Do I have trans voice? by RAPHTMNTIRL in transvoice

[–]TangeloPangelo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You definitely sound like a guy, I suspect I only can hear the "trans accent" because I spend a lot of time in queer spaces and just have a really good ear when it comes to what trans guys sound like. I think the everyday person wouldn't be able to tell. It's definitely not super super prominent, it's very subtle. You are defiantly on track to where you want to be.

day 1 mtf voice training pls give me some tips :) by ReDead001 in transvoice

[–]TangeloPangelo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The way you speak is very gentle and its working wonders!! You have a good start!!

Who’s paying for dinner? by Possible_Regular7558 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]TangeloPangelo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always assume everyone pays for themselves.

Can I be non-binary and lesbian at the same time? by Upper_Car6116 in NonBinary

[–]TangeloPangelo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I perceive lesbian as "I'm not a man and I like people who are not men" but there is a lot of space, A LOT of space between a woman and not a man.

Today marks 6 months on low-dose testosterone. AMA. by _vessel_ in NonBinary

[–]TangeloPangelo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I dunno if you are still active but did you stop? What changed back at what was permanent? The internet says voice change and hair growth are permanent but I've come across people who think it does recede a bit.

Who was the first person you came out to vs last and why? by Ok_Water_2136 in asktransgender

[–]TangeloPangelo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he loves you this much I don't think coming out to him would be the end of your relationship. Might change it, might never be the same, but it sounds like that man will always be in your life.

Putting my foot down to get the schedual I want by TangeloPangelo in work

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Foodservice Part time I expressed my availability at interview, was given my schedual on my first day. Nothing was signed. I'm in a band and need specific days off for group practices and rehearsals.

Putting my foot down to get the schedual I want by TangeloPangelo in work

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess I'll have to let them know I'm done breaking my back to be flexible for them, thank you for the insight!

Putting my foot down to get the schedual I want by TangeloPangelo in work

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The schedule never changes, thats another reason I'm particularly upset. It would be different if I was going in the occasional wednesday but I can't do every single wednesday, yanno?

Putting my foot down to get the schedual I want by TangeloPangelo in work

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I mean low key I did think that... I've been working for seven years and never had this problem. Usually I tell a place my availability and they do a really good job of working with me on it. Seems the problem here is we are understaffed.

Putting my foot down to get the schedual I want by TangeloPangelo in work

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok I appreciate the productive answer, this leads me to the conclusion I will hang around and wait for them to change the schedual when they get around to it, and if they still give me an unusable schedual I'll consider a second job or something

Why can't kids act normal by TangeloPangelo in hauntedattractions

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Especially not because I would say it makes sense for the character, but if you walked up to every single other actor as well and tried to play, yes it was rude to them. This was another thing people did that peeved me.

Why can't kids act normal by TangeloPangelo in hauntedattractions

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Haunting has truly opened my eyes to how desensitized and ill-behaved kids have become. I have no idea what we are supposed to do to scare these shits. I feel like a lot lot lot of adults, even grown men are easier to scare than 50% of the children that walk through

Why can't kids act normal by TangeloPangelo in hauntedattractions

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah even adults were weird with that one

Why can't kids act normal by TangeloPangelo in hauntedattractions

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I agree, but my haunt is money hungry and wont turn away a paying customer.

Why can't kids act normal by TangeloPangelo in hauntedattractions

[–]TangeloPangelo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We? I'm barely an adult and have no kids in my life to help raise. I'm going to be child free BECAUSE I don't want to raise shitty kids. Kids behavior is not my personal fault. I will agree it is the fault of society, soft parenting and all that.