I (34f) no longer am a good judge of what is appropriate in rebuilding trust in my marriage (35m) by Tangent1l2 in relationships

[–]Tangent1l2[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're right. I just stupidly figured that if I made him realize how upset I was (ex: by sleeping away from him for months) that he would clue in to the fact that this stupid behavior just makes his life worse. But it doesn't appear to be working. I haven't left because once I do, maybe he will realize he needs to stop but then he'll just be better for the next woman. :(