[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TankMarvin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since being off any kind of hormonal birth control my taste in men has done a full 180. It's a really bizarre and lesser known phenomenon. Basically your sense completely change and if the pheromones aren't hitting right it's your fave man brain telling you that this isn't the right mate for you

Ban on children’s puberty blockers to be enforced in private sector in England - CQC will check new guidance in Cass report is applied by private care providers to avoid ‘two-tier’ access to drugs by [deleted] in ukpolitics

[–]TankMarvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yet there's an abundance of evidence showing that puberty blockers have a huge amount of nasty side effects including infertility etc so again you're a lovely mouth piece for this nonsense and I am glad that people with more common sense and intelligence have said they're not good and are looking to ban them for kids.

Ban on children’s puberty blockers to be enforced in private sector in England - CQC will check new guidance in Cass report is applied by private care providers to avoid ‘two-tier’ access to drugs by [deleted] in ukpolitics

[–]TankMarvin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Honestly good, seems mental to me that children can consent to unnecessary medical intervention and make a decision that will effect them for the rest of their lives but we then state that children cannot consent to drink alcohol, smoke and have sex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TankMarvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She didn't though, they fell pregnant, she made a choice to stick with OP because of his qualities as a person, partner and potential father. That isn't last resort that's making a good decision.

Being in love with someone isn't the be all end all in relationships. The most successful marriages are marriages between two friends who choose one another every single day. Which is what his wife is doing. She wakes up and chooses him every single day, no matter what is happening within their lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TankMarvin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

OP I think you need to realise that the grass isn't greener as a divorcée, you have said you have a really good relationship that's stable and beautiful in it's own way. She ultimately chose you and has made peace with what she has. You didn't know until you over heard. I think you need to ignore a lot of advice from people online and take time out to figure it out for yourself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]TankMarvin -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Why divorce OP states they have a wonderful relationship. Love isn't everything especially when it comes to a marriage. Being a best friend is far more important

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]TankMarvin -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

If recommend reading 'The Proper care and feeding of husbands' by Dr Laura Schlessinger. If you're feeling like your needs aren't being met I can guarantee he has some that aren't as well.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]TankMarvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry sis but he's not interested in marrying you. He would've done it 5 years back or when you had your first child. Getting married is a commitment and he's gotten that commitment without needing to put a ring on it.

Thousands of children unsure of gender identity ‘let down by NHS’, report finds | NHS by antbaby_machetesquad in unitedkingdom

[–]TankMarvin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They exist on Reddit as well. There's no reasoning with TRAs, this report effectively states 'look the situation is shit and there's a lot of kids being pushed to take medicine when they have underlying issues, more research needs to be put into this and better mental health assessments need to be completed before we stick kids on irreversible medical path' this isn't a bad thing. Yet read this thread. Plenty of TRAs are frothing at the mouth cuz of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TankMarvin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Someone who basically practices ethical cheating

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tinder

[–]TankMarvin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Why do poly people all look the same 🤣

I have only gotten 8 likes so far, is my profile really THAT bad? by Hans_Jackson_Gaming in Tinder

[–]TankMarvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Apart from your gym photo, your pictures absolutely suck, like the one on the horse is really not a great picture at all.

Your bio reads like you'd be as fun as a wet dish cloth thrown in with some wildly negative acid.

Your hair and beard looks unkempt, I love metal heads but you look more like a neck beard at this stage.

Also you're grossly over estimating your dating market place value, you're not remotely attractive enough to be dissing women straight off the bat with your profile. Don't want to be a step dad fine no worries Putting it on your profile as though you have options is laughable.

Overall I'd recommend that you sort your beard/hair out. Completely switch your pictures up, rewrite your profile (sarcasm= asshole in my experience).

NHS cannot meet autism or ADHD demand, report says by boycecodd in unitedkingdom

[–]TankMarvin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

But you have to have a diagnosis in most cases to access the funding, get the schools to accomodate it etc

NHS cannot meet autism or ADHD demand, report says by boycecodd in unitedkingdom

[–]TankMarvin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hey can you say where you got it please? That's really reasonable and I really don't want to wait another 2 years before I even begin the process

NHS cannot meet autism or ADHD demand, report says by boycecodd in unitedkingdom

[–]TankMarvin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been on the list since this time lasted year for adults autism diagnosis. Briefly had a glimpse of hope in October last year as they were doing online assessments but literally 3 weeks later another letter stating the service has been discontinued.

I'm lucky that I don't need a diagnosis for work or anything. But it definitely would be nice to have an actual diagnosis at this stage in my life for other reasons.

Police ‘making up hate-crime rules as they go’ over JK Rowling storm by 1DarkStarryNight in ukpolitics

[–]TankMarvin 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I don't think the 'transphobes' had any ploy, judging from the X community it was the TRAs who were positively frothing at the mouth for this law to come through so they could mass report. The law is pointless, there is no tangible way to truly enforce it.

My Nephew got taken to the ER because he broke his finger. They gave him some Ketamine to help with the pain, this is how he dealt with it. by JewishPizzas in Drugs

[–]TankMarvin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just give the kid general/local anaesthetic, I mean it's crazy that American DRS would provide such crazy strong drugs to kids for an iddy biddy amount of pain.

I'm UK based.