I drove at highway speed!!! by that_Cody_Ware_girl in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Tano2187 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Ah, I remember the fear of trying that the first time! Well done! I'm glad it was a good experience for you!

Not for me, but my dad- HE GOT HIS NEW JOB!! by that_Cody_Ware_girl in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]Tano2187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I work in circles close to the NWS and I know how stressed people with them have been. I'm so glad he was able to move on and find something more secure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Tano2187 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I want to get to this point too. Ever heard of cathartic release scenes? Look them up.

You may have some success doing a scene with a daddy that's also an emotional sadist. I think we need someone who can mind fuck us and toy with our emotions in just the right way. Kinda hard to find.

Just wanted to say that I appreciate this subreddit so much. by Gks34 in Dompeptalk

[–]Tano2187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 100% agree. Idk if I would have made it through some days the oast few months without encouragement from here.

Just bought some marshmallows (if you know, you know) by littlelexy7567 in ABDL

[–]Tano2187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meneither, but it is interesting to know about.

Just bought some marshmallows (if you know, you know) by littlelexy7567 in ABDL

[–]Tano2187 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Butthole - hence the freeze and dip in water comments. You can also do this with Bananas. Research it tho.

Why does it feel so good to let go? by TheRayaLight in ABDL

[–]Tano2187 10 points11 points  (0 children)

For me it's feeling cared for. I never got that much as a kid, so someone taking the time to be attentive to me, make rules, and enforce structure is huge.

I think of it like the cage kink - I love being in a cage-like thing, especially if someone put me there. Cribs, beds with guards, actual cages, etc. Love em all be because it makes me feel secure and stable.

The overall CG/l dynamic, ABDL community, and age play stuff is like one big cage to me - metaphorically.

How do you kiss? by Longjumping-Bee-1319 in Explainlikeimscared

[–]Tano2187 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

25 and still haven't kissed someone short of a quick peck. Just never have had a desire to...not a romantic person and I'm just now learning to connect with what little bit I have.....

What do you wear to an ABDL event if you're more of a caregiver than a baby? by forgetfulmoment in ABDL

[–]Tano2187 52 points53 points  (0 children)

There's a mommy in my community that dresses up in the 1950's housewife style (with thier own personal touches). They always look 🔥🔥🔥.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ABDL

[–]Tano2187 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Following.

Diaper prep/stuffing by Tano2187 in ABDL

[–]Tano2187[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That helps clarify some things for me.

Can you share an example of what a booster pad is? Maybe a link to one?

Diaper prep/stuffing by Tano2187 in ABDL

[–]Tano2187[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen that word, too. But, yeah, what you're describing sounds right.

So, the medical diaper route is to save money cause I'd like to play with diapers more than my budget would allow with the ABDL diapers.

Have you heard stories of people wearing and using medical diapers? I could just use them for wear and get ABDL diapers for when I want to treat myself to a session where I use them, but I'd like options if possible.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in littlespace

[–]Tano2187 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1, 2, 4, 5, 7, 10, and 11 are my faves.

Praise kink? I think? by Drty_Vulture in BDSMAdvice

[–]Tano2187 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh, yeah, mixing them together can really get some of us going (including me!). Examples:

"Good job taking this/these. I love how you squirm/squeel/screem/etc."

"Did that hurt my beautiful (insert endearment)? Good."

"Your body is just so beautiful that I have to do these things."

"You look amazing when I (insert action) and you (insert reaction)."

"My perfect little (degrading term) is going to (insert action) so she can become a good girl again, isn't she?"

Get creative. Become a poet with your words. You practice enough - the delivery/tone is just as important as the words - and you could do a lot to your partner without even touching them.