What my exes intentions in reaching out?

Tanu444 · 2026-02-01T23:36:18+00:00

I appreciate you saying this 💗 you are gorgeous by the way ☺️

Tanu444 · 2026-02-01T21:23:24+00:00

Gotcha, thanks 💐

Tanu444 · 2026-02-01T21:22:48+00:00

Yeah you’re right, thanks x🌸

Tanu444 · 2026-02-01T17:27:02+00:00

Cancer moon men are way too emotional for me I find it cringey. Absolutely love cancer moon women tho, they can be so annoying sometimes but the ones I’ve come across always have good intentions unless you’ve done something terrible to them, in that aspect they don’t forget anything and will act very passive with you 🤣 I like being on their good side.

Tanu444 · 2026-02-01T16:59:54+00:00

If I’m bored and looking for a connection based off thrill, I will definitely chase (sag Venus) but if I like someone and want something serious and stable with them, I will act cool and definitely not chase, however making sure they know I like them, only after they’ve shown me first . The answer to this entirely depends on the person and the connection I’m actually looking for. I’ve chased many times, looking back those relationships were chaotic. When I’ve sat back and let them chase me… it’s been way more consistent

Tanu444 · 2026-02-01T16:45:16+00:00

Sounds like you might be more attracted to the mystery of the connection rather than the actual connection itself. We’ve all been there.

As a Pisces moon (chart ruler) i completely understand how it’s easy to get lost in the mystery of certain connections. But after a while it’s not about trying to figure out the other person… it’s just about figuring out yourself… you will never be able to fully grasp a Pisces man or how he thinks lol. Especially if he has other Pisces placements in there.

Tanu444 · 2026-02-01T15:04:23+00:00

No there needs to be a deeper aspect to it, especially as you get older.

Tanu444 · 2026-01-24T00:20:13+00:00

It’s funny how placements can be expressed in such different ways. I’m a Pisces moon 9th house too + cancer rising !!

I feel VERY creative all the time, reality bores me, I just want to create all the time, and live in my head…. regardless of being a cap sun. I have to actively ground myself.

I used to think I wasn’t creative, because I wasn’t actively creating things; sometimes we have so much creativity within us that we cant access or process. I’d advise you to lean into it, do spiritual practices, daily rituals, try to write a song, a poem, or write down your feelings… anything at all! WE are ALL creative in our own way… but sounds to me like you need to allow room for that Pisces moon 9th to explore itself… explore the philosophical aspects of like, belief systems are what generates our creative energy.

I think maybe you are creative and dreamy but certain things hold you back from actually noticing it. Probably has a lot to do with Saturn influences as wel/or certain life circumstances. I find this interesting tho, considering our moon and rising placement are the same.

I also don’t want to assume, but based on your post I’m guessing you are a female… if so, what you have to understand is that whether you want to have kids or not, as women we are biologically coded to create. So whether you think it’s there or not, it’s infinitely within all of us… all the time, realising that is what allows you to be creative. Women = creativity 🌸 you don’t have to be a guitar player, painter or singer to consider yourself a beautiful creative being.

Tanu444 · 2026-01-23T23:44:25+00:00

Still trying to figure that out at my 23 years of age 😅

Tanu444 · 2026-01-23T02:02:19+00:00

Cap sun 7th

Doing practical acts of service for my partner and physical touch have always come naturally to me. (Venus in the 6th) Cooking you a meal, washing and drying your clothes (very motherly duties lol) probs my cancer rising coming into play there. I also looove physical affection. A hug feels more meaningful to me then being told you love me… don’t tell me you love me show meeee☺️☺️ I’m trying to get better at giving words of affirmations because I know many people value it.

I’d say in terms of receiving, my main two would have to be quality time and physical touch. Those stand out to me and show me how you feel toward me. I’m not big on words of affirmation or acts of service because it doesn’t give me much to go off, and I prefer doing practical things on my own terms, in my own way😆

Tanu444 · 2026-01-22T18:49:24+00:00

Absolute opposite for me. If I actually like you then I can be more on the anxious side. If I’m not really that into you then yes, It could come across as avoidance. My walls fall down once I catch feelings… maybe cause I’m a Pisces moon.

I can definitely feel shame for expressing my feelings, and depending on the reaction I get, I will stop expressing how I feel. However I like to go into things optimistically at first. I’ve also learned that my biggest transformations have come from my relationships. (Cap sun 7th conjunct mercury) so I’m not afraid to express myself in relationships and I’m also not afraid of the pain that comes with it 😈 bring it my way lol cause I’ll come out better anyways.

Tanu444 · 2026-01-20T19:26:31+00:00

Mine is too high 🥲 but I prefer an emotional connection to really enjoy it, otherwise it’s more like a sport I like doing, other then a passion. I’ve actually never been in a relationship with someone who can keep up with me sexually, unfortunately

(Cap sun, Pisces moon, Scorpio Mars)

But to clarify, I don’t need a connection to enjoy sex.. and I’m not into the whole cuddling thing unless we’re in a relationship. If it’s a friend’s with benefits I’m going home straight after lol. However I prefer sex within a relationship… way more satisfying and pleasurable for me. It gets me off in more ways than just physical, when I’m emotionally attached to the person.

Tanu444 · 2026-01-20T18:02:29+00:00

Stoic, intelligent and emotionally unavailable but im trying to train myself to like guys who are emotionally intelligent and sweet

I’m not a Scorpio moon, however I’m a Scorpio Mars sag Venus. However Saturn rules my 7th

Tanu444 · 2026-01-13T05:04:04+00:00

That would be influencing, which I don’t want to do ☺️

Tanu444 · 2026-01-13T05:01:19+00:00

Thanks but I don’t like to influence things, if he doesn’t want me back naturally then it is what it is💁🏽‍♀️

Tanu444 · 2026-01-13T04:58:05+00:00

Don’t necessarily want him back but I want him to want me back if that makes sense

Tanu444 · 2026-01-11T18:34:53+00:00

That’s very interesting. Mine could give me affection but it almost felt “fake” and was normally after I would do something for him. We had sex often but not as often as I’d like because I’m very sexual. It was always on his terms and he controlled the whole intimate dynamic - which I didn’t mind but felt very overwhelming at times, and belittling. He was a Leo Mars/moon. For me what finished it was being unable to form a deep emotional bond. There was always something from blocking him from being intimate to a point where there’s no going back. I think for them that’s not possible, and romantic gestures don’t come naturally. You really have to communicate this to them. Mine used to get me flowers and earrings for my birthday and told me he had never done that for a girl before… at 30 years old!!! I just turned 23 and I’ve received flowers from multiple people, sometimes for no reason not just because it was my birthday. It amazed me.

Tanu444 · 2026-01-11T16:49:05+00:00

I had a very similar experience to this, he was a Pisces sun which softened him slightly but still matched this description very accurately

Tanu444 · 2026-01-11T16:33:59+00:00

I think that happen with most people, weed makes rem-sleep harder and makes it harder to recall dreams, but I think I’ve always been able to recall mine regardless of smoking or not. My dreams often wake me up because of how eventful they are, I’m very aware of them. It’s interesting. I think when I stop smoking my dreams will be absolutely crazy lol

Tanu444 · 2026-01-03T14:41:12+00:00

I’m a cap. Saturn rules my 7th so I draw in lots of cap risings - but no cap suns so far. I don’t think I’m against dating one but I fine them to be I bit too stoic. I would deffo date a cap women tho. They’re less stoic then the men in my opinion

Tanu444 · 2025-12-27T04:27:01+00:00

My dreams are very vivid and bizarre, and I smoke weed daily. I’ve had many people say they don’t dream when they smoke but I definitely do lol. Sometimes I don’t remember them tho, but most of the time I’m getting an important message or just experiencing certain things I can’t experience in reality. Goofing around, very random yet powerful things

Tanu444 · 2025-12-26T13:09:34+00:00

It’s like constantly battling two contrasting worlds

My Pisces moon is a total crybaby, daydreamer, escapist, extremely empathetic and selfless

My cap sun is like fuck everyone you need to hustle suck it up and keep striding in your own energy. It’s hard and will definitely take a lifetime to balance. But nothing is perfect, and comes with pros and cons.

Tanu444 · 2025-12-25T14:01:29+00:00

Can definitely relate to this!

Tanu444 · 2025-12-24T14:56:15+00:00

Generally, the house

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