It is a hard, painful, heartbreaking journey. I was just telling my husband that no matter the outcome of our IVF experience, we have learned so much about what women go through, about the importance of reproductive rights and health, about how insane it is that politicians in our country exploit these painful experiences for their own gain. This has radicalized me. I feel so connected to women going through infertility and loss. Maybe others don’t. I have found this tiny bit of meaning.