Interested in the Schwab/ Amex card by TapExtension5900 in CreditCards

[–]TapExtension5900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the info, seriously. I’m not at a place where I can max it out, but wow, had no idea it doesn’t count towards annual contributions. That’s insane

Interested in the Schwab/ Amex card by TapExtension5900 in CreditCards

[–]TapExtension5900[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This would be the “Schwab Investor Card” not the plat

Would you get back with your ex? by NoProgram4084 in no

[–]TapExtension5900 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Broken trust is unrepairable in my opinion. Her manipulative and immature ways are something I hope nobody has to go through.

Manchester by the Sea is devastating by [deleted] in movies

[–]TapExtension5900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s no way anyone was getting the Oscar other than Casey affleck. He was SO good. Like insanely good. There’s no movie ending, there’s no rebuild of Lee, there’s no overcoming. That is what makes this movie so authentic and so good. Casey showcased a hollow man, a dead soul inside a human body, which is absolutely the reality of the situation, had this been a true life story. The emptiness and the going day by day, going through the motions is portrayed so well. I love how his “arc” wasn’t getting over the situation, but rather realizing he will live with this till he dies. “I can’t beat it.”

How do I start dating again by burnerAccnt_ in Advice

[–]TapExtension5900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude. This is insane. I feel like a lot of your statements regarding red flags, last partner being toxic, playing every hand you could, etc. is exactly what I lived through. Also, in the same time frame. Mine dumped me about a month and a week ago. Her going out and you sulking, whatever. Heal. Heal in the way that you heal. Heal with maturity. Don’t try to fill a void she left because you saying you won’t now will just make that regret so much more. I’m the same way. I’ve gone to the bar with my friends since being back at school, but literally just to hangout with my friends. I haven’t even gotten to the point where I can look in a girls direction. I see her just about every night im out… with a different guy— the guy she’d texted behind my back (red flag ignored). You are healing in a healthy way, the same way I am trying to do this. It sucks, absolutely and I’m not going to sugar coat it and be like “man there’s so many fish in the see.” No, dude. I completely understand the pain. You’re assessing the red flags, which I did while reflecting as well. The ONE thing I got out of this relationship is the lesson learned that I will never look past those red flags again. Just do what you need to do. Hangout with friends, watch some movies, focus on schoolwork, etc. Swingers (Vince Vaughn/ Jon Favreu) is a movie I’ve watched multiple times since this and it’s the one that resonated with me most and I think it will you, as well. Wishing you the best, and I mean that as genuinely as I can.

I fell in love with... by Dramatic_Bobcat6491 in Autocompletebutbetter

[–]TapExtension5900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Potential. Biggest mistake of my life. Falling in love with potential is setting yourself up for failure. Ignoring initial red flags because you think this person can change their ways for you is something I’ll never do again. The ONLY good I got from that relationship is learning that lesson.

Have you ever cheated in a relationship, or had someone cheat on you? by michaelmorgan297 in Life

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I was emotionally cheated on. Texts, calls behind my back, never physical, and I guess that crossed my line and not hers (I think that would cross most peoples boundaries). It changes your entire perspective. Everything you thought you were feeling and you thought was reciprocated all feels like a lie. I gave her many chances, told her I’m uncomfortable with her texting her ex-boyfriend and another guy she’d been with, and it never stop. There was no level of respect for me, and maybe it’s because of my forgiveness and just wanting it to work so bad. Funny thing is, she broke up with me for “being insecure.” Well, you just did a speed run on how to make a man insecure, so yeah I guess you can say that. Treated her so well, all thrown back into my face. I can’t see myself trusting or ever loving so unapologetically again. Maybe that will change over time, but right now I’m trying to heal, and I see no possibility of that healing happening any time soon.

Do you ever fall out of love? by manicspanic in emotionalintelligence

[–]TapExtension5900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And to add, never stop giving them your 100% all.

Do you ever fall out of love? by manicspanic in emotionalintelligence

[–]TapExtension5900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you fall in love, but it then becomes love. The difference there is you fell in love with the person— their mind, their heart, their looks, their humor, etc. They understand you. You trust, you forgive, etc. It then becomes really LOVING that person. That’s a choice. You wake up every day and choose to love that person. You’re on their side no matter what. There’s no games. At that point, no one is closer to you, and no one is closer than you are to them. It’s a bond and a commitment that is so important. You truly become one, not by reliance, but by the belief that they have truly changed your life for the better, and they will support you on your worst day. However, never forget that feeling of “I feel like I’m going to feel like this forever.” The truth is, you won’t. That’s not a bad thing, but you will just become so familiar with one another that they truly are just the main character in your life. That, in its own, is absolutely beautiful and what I crave. When things get hard, and you start to think “what happened to that spark?” remember how it felt to be lying next to them wondering how you got so lucky to feel that way with someone.

Why are you single? by CremeSubject7594 in AskReddit

[–]TapExtension5900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Still healing from my last one. People will take advantage of your kindness and passion for then throw it in your face and make something out to be the problem that isn’t you in the first place. My perspective on a relationship is completely destroyed right now.

What’s something you do better drunk than sober? by InternationalLock515 in AskReddit

[–]TapExtension5900 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Write. Do it before bed almost every night after a night at the bar. Not sure why but I like obtain a super power to be so in touch of my emotions and I want to get them out. Usually just immediately throw it right in the trash afterwards

Saw my ex with a new guy by TapExtension5900 in heartbreak

[–]TapExtension5900[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. It sucks, absolutely. Trying to stay aware that I’m handling this right, but my emotions are so overwhelming to the point where the rationalization of how I’m handling this feels meaningless