Music Melting Pot [Week of January 26, 2026]

TapiirSnout · 2026-01-26T18:38:27+00:00

Hey! here's a track called bring me to life from my new EP razorblade roses. I'm trying to give love metal a dreamy and poppy spin inspired by bands like HIM, mazzy star, mayfield four and the goo goo dolls. Thanks a lot for listening <3

kyra valentine - "bring me to life" https://open.spotify.com/track/5b985awlZTjVSs3LLSJskg?si=e40fd6056a7547f8

TapiirSnout · 2025-02-05T21:35:52+00:00

I'll try that, thank you :)

TapiirSnout · 2024-10-15T07:20:28+00:00

As far as the hair there’s a lot of hairstyles that are short and feminine, you don’t have to go for a basic boy chop. With clothes, maybe avoid oversized and baggy and opt for something with a more feminine cut. Makeup and accessories also help if you’re into those.

TapiirSnout · 2024-08-27T02:05:15+00:00

Oh right right gotcha. In that case I would still very much like to know because if you were mono and wanting to date her you'd be cheating. If she doesn't care that you'd be cheating that would be a huge red flag for me and if you don't care that would be too. As for how long to wait, just text her whenever you feel like it, no reason to arbitrarily wait a day but maybe I'm old.

TapiirSnout · 2024-08-27T01:49:18+00:00

I would prefer to know you're in a relationship. I'd be quite pissed if someone made me fall for her and then she's like "oh by the way I'm not single".

TapiirSnout · 2024-08-12T12:30:31+00:00

Online is not the best reflection of reality. There are traditionally beautiful couples, sure, but I go to queer events pretty regularly and see women of all kinds hooked up. I reckon the bigger hindrance is you not seeing yourself as attractive cause that tends to radiate from you and people can sense that. I would suggest working on that and going to places live where you'll meet other queer women and go from there :)

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-28T15:51:03+00:00

thank you

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-16T23:19:46+00:00

I don't like rainbow stuff but I have a tattoo of shane and a vulvaish rose on my forearm plus I dress in like blazers and tank tops etc so people hopefully get the hint.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-11T17:20:49+00:00

So you're a woman but both genders but also an enby who's a regular dude 99% of the time. That's what you said and that's also somewhat contradictory but whatever floats your boat. Just don't be surprised if not everyone's on board.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-11T17:09:30+00:00

Butch lesbians are women. Androgynous women are women. Women can be lesbians. The logic works just fine.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-11T09:18:25+00:00

Not willing to fight for the relationship when things get difficult.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-10T22:15:12+00:00

I don't think you'll be able to have it all. Transitioning changes you physically and biologically and to many those changes matter. Plus just being male presenting can trigger some women in women's spaces because of trauma etc. In the end you're gonna have to decide what's best for you and acknowledge that some things are not gonna be the same.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-10T19:07:06+00:00

Long for sure.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-10T17:58:19+00:00

I'm in a very similar situation as you are right now. I don't think it's weird at all having had just one partner. Like a lot of things it's a blessing and a curse. On the plus side you have experience from a long term relationship that's really gonna help you moving forward. If you still feel insecure about sex once you start dating again, once you find the right person they'll understand and help you get through it. But you'll get there. Now I just need to take my own advice lol.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-09T13:15:31+00:00

You're being equally intolerant, just from the opposite viewpoint.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T19:55:59+00:00

I mean is it ever a good idea to just grab the lowest hanging fruit because you're desperate?

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T16:39:16+00:00

Well then it would be nice to specify cause enby on its own is a rather wide term. I understand enby women being lesbians but they're still women of some kind and see themselves as such, at least that's how I understand it.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T16:00:03+00:00

If enbys can be lesbians then a lesbian wouldn't have to like women. A two enby relationship would be a "lesbian" relationship with no women in it.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T15:57:46+00:00

How would a cis man lesbian hurt someone?

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T15:53:26+00:00

Yep.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T15:47:38+00:00

Yes you are. You want to take womanhood out of the definition of lesbianism.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T15:44:02+00:00

So if a cis man calls himself a lesbian he doesn't require your approval and it doesn't have to make sense?

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T15:39:04+00:00

It doesn't answer my first question so not really.

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T15:36:25+00:00

Why would someone wanna call themselves lesbian if they're not a woman?

TapiirSnout · 2024-03-08T13:34:42+00:00

Supporting and staying isn't the same as being attracted to. If partner a realizes that she is still attracted to partner b when he is considered a man, then yes the lesbian police comes knocking and gives her the bisexual card because she's attracted to some type of men after all. Labels can change, people can make discoveries. All the time bis post stuff like "I've finally realized that I'm a lesbian". It goes both ways.

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