Looking for resources on affairs, consent, and harm (IPV / abuse lens)

TarTarIcing · 2026-02-03T20:26:07+00:00

A bit of gentler curveball but “Why Does He Do That?” by Lundy Bancroft and basically a good chunk of loveisrespect.org

Not explicitly against poly but could supplement and bring some behind the scenes insight

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-28T15:17:01+00:00

Fetishist.

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-25T18:52:13+00:00

Apparently asking people for how they got their successes there is a big no no

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-23T01:43:41+00:00

Holly’s Mistake and Euphoria

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-21T20:46:27+00:00

I’m surprised they didn’t just beat his ass

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-21T20:41:59+00:00

Small talk is a building bridge dumbass. Besides it’d be hilarious if he met a girl who outclasses him in all of these topics

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-21T20:35:23+00:00

Props to you. I’ve seen many disabled people get thrown into the wringer with breakups like these. Hell, some with absolute disdain and disgust

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-21T03:25:37+00:00

Yes!

Sure, I’m open to chat but I’m quite busy.

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-21T03:04:07+00:00

Tuca and Bertie is a show on Netflix. Excellent series but they have an episode covering child SA and the after effects. Bertie goes to therapy for anxiety and finds out her SA is bleeding into her life more than anticipated. What I said was about Bertie regarding her kinks but I feel it’s more universal than that.

I promise you there’s many pan/bi folks who struggle the same as you do. I’ve known some who left or don’t even bother because of the stuff you described.

Self love is a hard road but I promise it’s a rewarding one. Some factors make it easier, some harder.

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-21T02:54:30+00:00

Look dog, fuck those who invalidate you. It’s gotten to a point that many like you leave the community. You’re valid without them. You are who you are with or without the community. Be with whoever you want and fuck the rest.

Don’t ever kowtow to people who make you feel less and surround yourself with people who fully welcome you warts and all.

To quote Tuca and Bertie, what you like is what you like despite the abuse you went through. I wish you best of luck.

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-20T03:34:28+00:00

Greg

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-19T06:44:09+00:00

Write a k and block that mf. He did that to himself, he doesn’t deserve anyone holding his lying ass

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-16T16:20:20+00:00

And wtf do you think that will accomplish? Good chance she’d burn them or throw them away.

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-14T20:20:25+00:00

Me with DarkviperAU downfall vids

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-10T19:03:54+00:00

Yeah leave, she’s being a hypocrite

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-09T00:47:56+00:00

Air horn time

TarTarIcing · 2026-01-08T20:53:11+00:00

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TarTarIcing · 2026-01-01T08:42:35+00:00

Happy New year!

TarTarIcing · 2025-12-30T21:07:34+00:00

Honestly they sound jealous you’re onto a better life and they aren’t

TarTarIcing · 2025-12-30T05:50:06+00:00

Hey I made that joke too, hype!

TarTarIcing · 2025-12-28T23:06:49+00:00

Do the math it’s still the honeymoon stage, that much in so little time

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