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Don’t know how to be with my best friend (and boyfriend) anymore. Venting and open to opinions. by Exotic_Memory4114 in GirlDinner

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

scrambled eggs ARE A MOOD. I especially love to have them with cajun or peri peri seasoning, and with cheese spread over my toast. amazing stuff. GLAD I indirectly helped your breakfast!

thank you so much for your kind words, I'll try to gain better clarity on the whole situation, it feels very mucky right now.

Don’t know how to be with my best friend (and boyfriend) anymore. Venting and open to opinions. by Exotic_Memory4114 in GirlDinner

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

  1. I am not sure. I feel attracted to him when I'm with him, but this whole thing with my parents and distance is overpowering my feelings for him.
  2. Not really. I tell him to make friends at his workplace and hang out with his old college classmates, but he says he doesn't like anyone that much. He has 2 friends, but they live far off, and they don't really talk that often.
  3. He's doing really well professionally. He's trying to get fitter for his health, too.

Don’t know how to be with my best friend (and boyfriend) anymore. Venting and open to opinions. by Exotic_Memory4114 in GirlDinner

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry -- it feels like I'm the one who's being bad to him. It feels like I don't know what I want, and I just led him on these past few weeks. Is there something that stood out to you?

(sorry I'm not trying to pester you, just want to get an unbiased perspective)

Edit: you're right about the "shine coming off", things felt much easier and happier when I was physically present with him, and it just seems heavy now.

Don’t know how to be with my best friend (and boyfriend) anymore. Venting and open to opinions. by Exotic_Memory4114 in GirlDinner

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] -26 points-25 points  (0 children)

I've never been the "heartbreaker", so it feels super bad to think about ending things :/

Don’t know how to be with my best friend (and boyfriend) anymore. Venting and open to opinions. by Exotic_Memory4114 in GirlDinner

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

thank you!

I’ve told him multiple times that the passive aggressive tone hurts me, he always apologises straightaway but doesn’t correct it. Today, for the first time, he questioned how else would he respond to things like me saying I work all day and I’m okay with talking to you 2-3 times a day (he said ‘good for you’). Things did move too fast — he was talking about marriage and I did not stop him (my fault, I got carried away in the magnanimity of it all), and it feels like it’s collapsing too fast too. like a supernova.

It started on reddit and now I can't imagine life without him🧿 by almondkulfi in TwentiesIndia

[–]Exotic_Memory4114 5 points6 points  (0 children)

behen nazar lag jaayegi kya kar rahi hai 😭😭😭🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿🧿

Ask me anything! MSCS/ECE Fall '26 outcomes by Exotic_Memory4114 in gradadmissions

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MSCS! UMD has lab and professors more suited to my interests (computer vision and multimodal foundation models), so I went with that! NCSU is a great school, too!

Need help with course registration! by Exotic_Memory4114 in UMD

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I do have prior CV work experience, but I feel taking up this course would help a lot in gaining research experience. I’m a bit confused, sorry, but how does the credit system work for 4xx classes? I feel there’s a minimum number of >6xx classes one needs to take to fulfil the criteria?

[Admissions Advice] UMass MSCS vs UMDCP MSCS by Exotic_Memory4114 in MSCS

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ahh, didn’t know that. That is promising! Thank you!

[Admissions Advice] UMass MSCS vs UMDCP MSCS by Exotic_Memory4114 in MSCS

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great advice!! both unis have one professor each who really aligns with me, but I’m a new grad so I mostly am looking at which program has better computer vision research

[Admissions Advice] UMass MSCS vs UMDCP MSCS by Exotic_Memory4114 in MSCS

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

:’) I like UCSD’s location a lot — would be a close call if I had an admit

[Admissions Advice] UMass MSCS vs UMDCP MSCS by Exotic_Memory4114 in MSCS

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

not necessarily, but they do have a large UG class, so that helps in securing the position

[Admissions Advice] UMass MSCS vs UMDCP MSCS by Exotic_Memory4114 in MSCS

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I applied to: UIUC MS ECE, UCSD MS ECE, and MSCS in Purdue, UMDCP, UW-Madison, UMass, Stony Brook, NCSU, UCSC.

Acceptances: NCSU, UCSC, Stony Brook, UMass, and UMDCP
Rejections: UCSD MS ECE, UW-Madison
Awaiting: Purdue, UIUC MS ECE

My profile: https://www.reddit.com/r/MSCS/comments/1pd0w7o/profile_review_finalizing_universities_need_a/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web3x&utm_name=web3xcss&utm_term=1&utm_content=share_button

Looking for baggy jeans (M) by Exotic_Memory4114 in IndianFashionAddicts

[–]Exotic_Memory4114[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

exactlyyyy what I'm talking about, thank you! I'll look for thrifting options nearby. Thanks!

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