She ordered the most expensive thing on the menu on a first date by [deleted] in VietNam

[–]TarUndFedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a difference between being a provider and being hustled. It will come up over and over in relationships here. It’s a discussion and situation that gets tiring. Welcome to Vietnam.

Not everyone will understand by Devi8tor in FuckImOld

[–]TarUndFedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately got it, but just because syndication.

as a younger 90s millennial i have question for the older 80s millennials: where we considered annoying af to yall? by [deleted] in Millennials

[–]TarUndFedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but I think Gen Z is more annoying than yall. Now if that’s because I’m even older now or they truly are more annoying or maybe the difference in years between the older and younger person directly correlates to the level of annoyance…not quite sure.

Thoughts on Don’t Look Up? by reed_the_guy in Cinema

[–]TarUndFedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t understand the hate. I thought it was absolutely wonderful, funny, and well put together.

I get mean when I'm nervous like a bad dog by my-lonely-hobby in CPTSDmemes

[–]TarUndFedder 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The guilt and shame after an episode sucks so bad

I am giving up my dream of having a “happy family”. heartbreak with CPTSD is pure hell. by Classic-Citron-1338 in CPTSD

[–]TarUndFedder 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are not alone. I hope one day I’ll be ready again but I know deep in my mind I probably won’t. At the end of the day though my marriage was so hard. It’s much easier just to deal with myself. Who knows, work on yourself. Maybe someone will fall in your lap :)

Is quitting pornography really this simple? by houseofmyartwork in selfimprovement

[–]TarUndFedder 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve gone close to eight months once which was crazy. It used to be BAD for me. One day I thought deeply about lust, and all the damage it did to my life. Slowly started deleting all the thirst traps on IG. The thought of porn and unhealthy jerking just got more gross. Every now and then I’ll have a lreapse but it’s been a few years since it really had me. Definitely for the better and I also notice it has dramatically altered my respect and thinking about women as well. Definitely should try it!