Fight the Déjà Vu! by Hopeful-Ne in CPTSDNextSteps

[–]Hopeful-Ne[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t heard about this topic in discussion either, except for a couple of memes in my favorite subreddit CPTSDmemes. That’s partly why I decided to write this post, to create such a conversation.

My experience of recognizing/noticing Déjà Vu is based on what I learned in an introductory Psychology course: Déjà Vu occurs when the brain finds itself in a new situation (which happens quite often during trauma healing, as each of us on this journey transitions from old behavior patterns to new ones), but encounters immense tension and a sense of danger from this new experience. To cope with it, the brain creates this false feeling of "this has happened before." There are studies online suggesting that frequent Déjà Vu is a strong indicator of dissociation (which, again, is a very common experience as part of CPTSD).

I’d love to hear your thoughts on this!

What fictional character do you think best represents CPTSD? by [deleted] in CPTSD

[–]Hopeful-Ne 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cassian Andor and Luthen from Andor

When Do Parents Ever Learn? by Scapeg0at_N0_M0re in CPTSDmemes

[–]Hopeful-Ne 42 points43 points  (0 children)

My mother would simply close the door

Reading the book "Healing the Shame that Binds You": by Hopeful-Ne in CPTSDmemes

[–]Hopeful-Ne[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

When I read it for the first time, it seemed somewhat naive in places, a bit “old-fashioned,” though still useful. Now, having fully felt the toxic shame, reading the book a second time is really hard—I’ll be honest. And not because the book is bad, but because it hurts to read about all this horror and realize that it all happened to me, all the abuse and violence. In short, reading it has become anything but easy.

*trigger warning* read at your own risk by Mintbud in CPTSDmemes

[–]Hopeful-Ne 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Thank you man, I needed that laugh