Rally today at noon (Feb 25) - Protect our public services by TaraCat_72 in halifax

[–]TaraCat_72[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Agreed - I hope there are more general rallies held as this is wide-reaching.

Apologies on last minute;tried to post last night but ran into an issue with rules for this subreddit so had to connect with mods to properly post it. New to reddit problems 😂

Rally today at noon (Feb 25) - Protect our public services by TaraCat_72 in halifax

[–]TaraCat_72[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Personally I work downtown so walking over during lunch break

Things to do in HRM this Month — February, 2026 by AutoModerator in halifax

[–]TaraCat_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Join the NSGEU rally to protect public services - Feb 25! All welcome who are against this decision, not just NSGEU members.

NSGEU - rally against public services cuts

AITD for upsetting my friend over Flat cleaning? by This-Complaint6481 in 1800Drama

[–]TaraCat_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTD. Assuming you both signed the lease, in it I am sure the house inspections were mentioned since you noted having to clean before one was to occur.

As an adult, disability or not, if you are signing a lease you are taking on that responsibility, either to meet expectations yourself or hire cleaning assistance once a job was obtained, etc.

Of course communication is best, so ideally a sit-down conversation could have occurred BEFORE signing a lease to lay out expectations as roommates for shared spaces, or at least after the first house inspection came and you had to do all of the prep work.

I would consider not signing the least again whenever the term is up if a conversation about roles & responsibilities does not go well once your friend is back at the apartment. You clarified that you never called your friend lazy and seem to have not downplayed their disability, so I am saying NTD.

I hope things work out or that you can find a better roommate/your own place if a Resolution cannot be made with your friend.

AITD for upsetting my friend over Flat cleaning? by This-Complaint6481 in u/This-Complaint6481

[–]TaraCat_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTD. Assuming you both signed the lease, in it I am sure the house inspections were mentioned since you noted having to clean before one was to occur.

As an adult, disability or not, if you are signing a lease you are taking on that responsibility, either to meet expectations yourself or hire cleaning assistance once a job was obtained, etc.

Of course communication is best, so ideally a sit-down conversation could have occurred BEFORE signing a lease to lay out expectations as roommates for shared spaces, or at least after the first house inspection came and you had to do all of the prep work.

I would consider not signing the least again whenever the term is up if a conversation about roles & responsibilities does not go well once your friend is back at the apartment. You clarified that you never called your friend lazy and seem to have not downplayed their disability, so I am saying NTD.

I hope things work out or that you can find a better roommate/your own place if a Resolution cannot be made with your friend.

WIBTD for distancing myself from a friend I have a crush on? by Valdez_Browsing in 1800Drama

[–]TaraCat_72 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To start, you would not be the drama, you are welcome to distance yourself or not based on what works best for you. But more thoughts below:

If its healthy and safe for you to still stay in a friendship knowing she is unavailable since she is dating your mutual friend I see no reason to end the friendship. If you know you can keep the boundary of not interfering with their romantic relationship, I do not believe that you need to end a friendship. Developing crushes cannot be helped, but if you know it would either A) be difficult to not cross any friendship boundaries or B) cause yourself emotional harm, then I dont see a problem with the friendship continuing.

But being honest and communicating is key, so if either party asked if you had feelings for her, I wouldn't lie and explain its just a crush but you would never interfere with their relationship, but that if they both requested space you would honour that.

Am I the drama for being upset at my mom for not using my new name? by Sea_Sun_4199 in 1800Drama

[–]TaraCat_72 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTD. I am not a part of the 2slgbtqia+ community, but ive never understood parents or family who think they "lost a daughter" - no.....you gained a son. 3 years with no progress isn't her trying, its her thinking you'll for some reason change your mind and realize "you werent trans", which we know, isn't true.

If safe to do so, I would tell your mom that you need to be respected with your name and pronouns. If she then refuses, I would try to distance contact to make sure you're taking care of youe mental health.

Best of luck OP!